It’s the Instagram era! A gateway to the hearts of many hot guys.
How many of times have you heard from your friends “I’m dating a guy who I met on Instagram?” Hundreds of thousands?
That is something awful for you because when you post such cute pictures of yours, you neither get a like nor get approached by a hot guy. I know this is very frustrating and you must think when my friends do the same they usually get 300-400 likes, even when they post the picture of an avocado toast. Then why not me?
Since I’m a blogger and Instagram is sort of my thing, after doing so much research on how to get more likes, more followers, more engagement, I have summed up that attention-grabbing on Instagram can be every girl’s cup of tea. Look at you, you’re beautiful, strong and brave, have everything which a guy desires.
Top tips on how to get a guy’s attention on Instagram
This is 2019, where dating on Instagram is on a high. It’s an app that really widens the spectrum of guys which you might date. Nowadays, most of the happy relationships start on Instagram only.
Nevertheless, I’m a here to help you and ME get the attention of our fellow Instagrammers, especially the guys. So, let’s get to it, shall we?
Take cute pictures, also use them as your story:
Girl, you’re cute! You don’t have to hide your face or to post a picture of your naked back to grab the man’s attention. According to studies, the picture with faces do exponentially better than photos that don’t have faces in them. Does it make sense to you? This generation wants to know who they’re talking to so showing the face WORKS. And guys, definitely love to see cute faces.
Use funny captions:
This is another option for the captions that work most of the time. Just be curious. Guys love the girls who make them laugh. Show your funny, naughty side and let the guy slide over to your DM.
Use saucy captions:
Not every time do you have to seek Pinterest to find a profound quote to put as a caption for your Instagram photos. Trust me, and if you want to grab attention, you need to be flirty and saucy. Write something created by you, let the guy know how creative you are. Write flirty captions in a way which makes him message you.
Comment on his picture with intention:
What if you comment on his image with just an emoji? It looks like spamming, and he doesn’t even bother to reply. But what if you post a sweet comment with an emoji? Comment something lame which makes him respond to your message even if his reply is “Thanks”!
If you want a hot guy to notice you, comment something attention-grabbing not “OMG you’re so hot.”
Like an old picture:
Scroll down to the bottom of his Instagram page and like an old picture of him. This will bring it up in his feed and shows you scrolled to find this photo. But be careful, he can take this in two ways, 1) he might think you are crazy and funny 2) might get a clue you’re showing interest in him. Hence, proceed with caution, I know, you can pull this off. GO, GIRL!
Respond to stories:
One excellent way to grab a man’s attention is to respond to their stories. But again do this purposely. If they have uploaded a story of your neighbourhood cafe/coffee shop, then instead of answering “hey cutie” start like this “hey, how often you go here, I can suggest you which beverage to have or nearby places to roam around.” Who knows a conversation starts on cafes might end up with romantic date nights.
Don’t post too often:
Well, no girl can resist posting cute pictures on Instagram, whether they are posting four in a day or three. But, with grabbing attention, slow down. If you post regularly, he might get tired of seeing you. Even worse, they can unfollow you.
The best is, don’t upload pictures too often, a post once in a week. With this, he will be excited when you post and also make him think you just couldn’t be bothered to post on Instagram.
Slide into his DM’s:
You are not living in the 18th century, you don’t have to wait for years for the guy come to you. You are bold and robust enough to message him first. Message him about his recent post. Tell him how cute and adorable you found him. This is a surefire way to get noticed and might be, he is also wondering the same about you!
Now you know how to grab a guy’s attention on Instagram. Go out there and get yourself a date, girlfriend. GO, GO, GO.