Some of the biggest secrets of life are awkward to hear, some are sweet, and some are downright heart-wrenching.
In elementary school, when we saw a cute girl/boy, we quickly rush to tell our friends and telling them how charming you found that person, but personally never thought to talk to that somebody. And this would continue over and over as we moved on and found someone new. But as adults, telling your crush about your feelings is incredibly considered as bravery. I still remember how I confess my true-felt feelings to my crush on Facebook, and he replied with saying – “Sorry, I have a girlfriend.” Oops.
There was a time when people feel shy in expressing feelings to their crush, but now the time has changed. It is the time when every day we found a new crush, and literally, it’s a fantastic feeling.
If your mind is too juggling with the crazy confession questions like:
- How to tell your crush about your feelings?
- What will happen if things went wrong?
- And last, what if they ran away?
Not to worry, to boost your confidence, this guide by Morning Lazziness comes to help you. Of course, in the 21st century, being upfront is significant.
Ask your friends to help you.
A friend in need is a friend indeed. Nobody can understand you better than your friends; they’re like your brother/sister from another mother. Also, it’s a universal truth that behind every love story, there a friend who pushes and motivates you to deal with the confessing nightmares. Your friends are the ones whom you can rely on, from boosting the confidence to giving the best relationship advice. So, before spinning the thoughts around your mind. Ask your friends to shout out all the things they love about you. Their friendly, caring thoughts gives you the courage to put the best of you in front of your crush. Just remember to stay calm and confident – your goal is to confessing your feeling, not tear yourself down.
Don’t overthink the situations- just go with the flow.
The more you rush for the things, the harder it becomes to get. Though overthinking is good, but don’t overthink those situations which are not in your hands. Possibilities are it might go wrong. And, later you will be left with saying why I did that, what should I do now? How to resolve things soon? And more.
Hence, the best way to deal with the confession overthinking process is to just go with the flow of nature – “your world isn’t going to collapse, and the sky isn’t going to fall.”
Going with the flow gives your inner self the real courage and best the boost – and there’s nothing wrong with that.
Be very understandable.
There was a cute guy who shared office space with me, so one day, I finally took the courage to ask him out for a drink, and when I bumped him around the cafeteria, I hold my breathe and articulate those words. He left with saying, I” ll let you know. Nodding for hours and hours, I finally got a text message by saying – Sorry, my girlfriend said no to meet other girls.
On that day, I decided, no matter whatsoever will be the situation, just upfront your feelings straightforward to that person. Otherwise, the time passes by. Make sure not to use scary words like “Date” and “Relationship” at first meet.
Let the words do their magic.
Putting the right words at the right time is very important. It’s called an act of kindness. If you are going to give a compliment to your crush, be very intelligent because you might don’t know their choices and don’t want to hurt their feelings.
So instead of saying this -“I have no idea if you have an interest, but I wanted to put it out there.”
Try this: “If you have interest in me, I’d like to take you out for drinks sometime.” It gives your crush a level of comfort.
Creating a conversation like this shows your crush that you’re respectful of their feelings, even if those feelings don’t match yours.
Let your Chemistry Fizzle out.
Most of the potential love stories don’t begin because the partners are shy; just they never try to express their feelings. So, instead of scrolling your crush profile, take the stand and let the beautiful moments fizzle out.
Wrapping it up!
Regretting later is better than doing the things today. Stop procrastination. Take your phone and ask your crush today for drinks or dinner. Chances are your crush, too, wants to confess.
When life gives you a lemon, make lemonade every day.