There are many kinds of relationships. It depends on us what kind of relationship we want to keep with another person. With some, we plan a bright future (marriage); with few, we just want to be friends; with some, we keep Friends with Benefits (FWB) relationship, and with some, we share May-December relationship and so on. But every relationship is unique.
Relationships are a string of confusing arrays, and upholding onto a relationship requires commitment, trust, and loyalty. That’s the reason people have given names to their relationships depending on their needs and the way they get treated in a relationship.
- Intimating in a committed relationship – this kind of relationship termed as marriage, where people feel much closer and more loving.
- Having sex in a non-committed relationship – affirmed as friends with benefits relationship, where people do lots of fun.
- Feeling bad experiences from the past relationship known as toxic relationship often made one hold start a new one because in their mind *they’re still hooked to their ex.*
What makes a relationship compatible?
Many times, individuals get confused between love, commitment, anger, and lust, and want all to go hand in hand. It doesn’t matter whether you are in a fifty-year marriage or have a one-night fling; both individuals must respect and trust their partner.
Because trust and loyalty are the foundations of cheerful relationships, it is what makes the relationship structure stronger and cheerful; it is what that keeps two individuals together while staying miles away.
Understanding this line can make your doubts clear about good lovers and bad romances. A happy relationship doesn’t need two perfect lovers; all happy relationships need is two people who have the same high expectations of love.
When two partners give and take equally in a relationship, both of them will be happy forever. When this thin balance topples over, the relationship gets shaky.
Different types of relationship structures:
The time we meet an individual, we rarely know what kind of relationship we are going to maintain with them? Priorities and expectations change over time!
As mentioned, there are various kinds of relationships which an individual prolong throughout their life.
1. The Monogamous or non-monogamous Relationship:
Love and sex with only one partner. If you ever feel like he/she is the only person with whom you want to spend your life. Solely, that person can keep you warm, cherish, and with that person, you want to be loyal throughout life; these are one of the best kinds of relationships which people thrive for, the monogamous Relationship.
Loyalty, respect, and trust are the roots of monogamous relationships.
On the other hand, if you face difficulty being honest with your partner, or so and won’t mind if your partner makes love to someone else, then probably you’re in a non-monogamous relationship.
2. The committed or non-committed Relationship:
Being in a committed relationship is one of the most beautiful things, sharing finances, discussing future goals, cuddling, raising children makes a relationship stronger, and shows individual commitment to grow each-other together.
While in a non-committed relationship, the couples hardly give attention and don’t think about each other’s goals or dreams, they’re more or less not happy with their better half.
3. A sexual or non-sexually relationship:
Will you get into a relationship only for sex, probably not because from a relationship we expect humbleness, kindness, caress, and emotional support, which is far above and much beautiful than sex. Even sometimes, physical appearance, holding hands, romantic talks, cuddling, giving massages, and co-sleeping without sexual intercourse means a lot. However, sweet sexual activities have their charm of expressing love.
While in sexual relationships, physical intimacy is what matters the most. There’s no emotional connection, and you don’t care about building love. You’re sexually fascinated by your partner, and you don’t care how they treat you as long as you get physical intimacy.
4. Friends with benefit relationship:
The friends with benefits relationship is an entirely no strings attached relationship. Two individuals get into the FWB relationship only for sexual intimacy and nothing more. Every single time, people who get into FWB just for casual sex, end up falling in love or break their hearts. Also, it’s very normal to feel insecure in an FWB relationship.
5. Toxic Relationships:
Toxic relationships are powerful, not only destroying one’s mental peace but becoming one reason for ending beautiful relationships. Couples often find themselves stuck and unhappy in such relationships. Toxic relations are termed as an addictive relationship- involve tremendous drama and persistent feelings of longing.
Sometimes, a toxic relationship makes you frustrated or annoyed most of the time, and you do not understand why.
6. The long-distance relationship:
Connected with phones, but physically not present, the couples who are in a long-distance relationship only understand what insecurities and jealousy they have to deal with. Mentally you know what your partner is doing, but the lack of physical intimacy destroys the relationship.
7. The love-hate relationship:
You wish to be with that person, but at the same time, you don’t want to be with that person. The love-hate relationship is confusing; though there is love and passion; there’s the same amount of hate and frustration.
The love-hate relationship is sweet and adorable; you can’t see your partner hanging around with someone, but you will always be the first person standing behind them like a rock. This kind of love-hate relationship is fun for a while unless both of you fix the issue, it’ll get very tiresome in the long run.
8. The May December relationships:
May–December romance is an age-old term for a romantic relationship between two people with a considerable age difference.
Generally, May-December relationships start blissfully but fade after a specific time. What matters in such relationships is the compatibility and awareness of dealing with family and friends’ views.
9. The time-pass relationship:
These days, the pastime fling relationship has become so common. People so in love with each other, but don’t want a happy future together. The time-pass relationship stays for months or days; such relationships give happiness for a shorter time and definitely won’t last for long.
10. The truly compatible romantic relationship:
One of the kindest and trustworthy relationships that are really hard to find. Both the partners are perfectly compatible, honest, understanding, and happily accept each other’s flaws.
The truly compatible relationship feels like love is in the air, and everyone else is envious of your relationship.
11. An open relationship:
Living in an open relationship is complicated. In such relationships, partners are only connected for physical intimacy, not emotionally. An open relationship doesn’t demand any commitment; both partners have sex with other people outside the relationship with each other’s consent.
12. An unhappy relationship:
Two of you are not happy with each other, but still need to live together because of kinds, family, or society values.
13. The held-by-loss relationship:
Chances can be both of you recently got separated, drained mentally, lacking emotional support, and need someone to love and get love in return. People in held-by-loss relationships always look for a rebound relationship with someone to fill the emptiness inside.
So, now you know various kinds of relationships exist. The question is, in which kind of relationship are you in love with? Probably you too don’t know which relationship gives you happiness; do something about it.