Your crush is standing in front of you. You want to talk to her but are clueless with the thoughts running in her mind. Don’t assume; she will come and reciprocate. The possibility is she might be giving you the signs to initiate the talk or doing such things to make you notice her.
How many of you have noticed these signs?
You really adore that girl. You are dreaming of being with her, but you are not sure how she feels about you. She is all that you want to live happily; her smile makes you go crazy; you feel a spark when she is around you. You wish to take things further, however somewhere you’re worried if she says NO?
In spite of cooking things in your mind, just clear your head first. Think in positive ways – What if she too wants to move along? What if she feels the same about me like I think of her? Though she is not taking the initial steps, she might be putting on some sort of action which you can take into consideration. That way, you may get to know her real intentions and can figure out what you’re going to do *if anything at all*.
Here are some essential signs she wants you to notice her when you are not 100% sure.
These are the tellable signs she wants you to notice.
There has been a time when I was literally crazy about that guy. I was so ready to do everything to make him notice me for just once. I always wondered why he’s not making an effort or initiating the things. Maybe he was scared, or somewhere confused about how I feel for him? Then one fine day we crashed at the same party, all thanks to my friends. I was pretty inexperienced, literally having no to zero knowledge of how to let someone know my intentions or what to do to make a guy notice me? My book was pretty much empty. Moreover, the tricks were also limited.
He was standing right next to me, and I tried so many things to let him notice me – from playing with hair to checking him out, being touchy to making eye contact, almost everything. But, he didn’t notice a single thing or may be ignored. The temperature was all one its urge, I rushed to him and flushed out everything that I was feeling about him.
It turned out to be a happy ending, and he liked me too. He was simply scared to do anything because he wasn’t sure how I felt about him. I thought I would have made it pretty clear a way back. It was a romantic ending.
Henceforth, if you notice your girl is showing such delightful signs, take the first step towards a beautiful beginning. Else you do not pay attention; you’ll miss the signs she wants you to notice her too.
Deep Eye Contact:
Listen, women rarely make intense eye contact. And if they’re doing so, there must be two conditions a) indications for help b) showing you that we like you. You literally have two options to choose from. Depending on the situation option two fits here well.
If a woman is staring at you, making prolonged eye contact, that’s a clear sign that she may be like you and trying to get your attention. Just try to smile back and see what happens.
Playing with her hair:
Well, it sounds a little lame and girly, but every other girl out there starts playing with their hair when they’re in front of a guy whom they want to notice them. It’s an automatic movement, and somewhat equivalent to legs shaking. Basically, it’s completely subconscious and shows that they’re nervous.
Try to show with their body language:
The one thing which never lies is body language. These days non-verbal communication imparts a lot, they are a clear indicator of unspoken words, and when a woman is trying to speak through her body language, it’s a subtle sign she wants your attention. She will try to open herself up more towards you, move her hair out of her face, and expose her neck or legs, caress her body while talking to you. These things are the clear means to get your eyes on her.
She amps up her style game:
Lately, she was the one who never put on some makeup, and sweatpants were her go through style. But recently, she started dressing up a little nicer, from sexy short dresses to hot pants, it could be because of you. So, if you just met her and now she’s spending too much time on her appearance and looking good, then my boy it’s you. Go and grab the opportunity.
She’s always there for you:
Chances are she’s not up for her friends, but she is there where you wish to see her. Be it any shape, or any circumstance; she will do her best just to get a glimpse of you. Does the way she looks at you show everything? Then that’s a clear sign; she totally wants you to notice her and make her forever.
We don’t touch people, whom we are not interested in. And, if she is touching you, maybe she wants to be friendly with you, she may be flirting or simply wants you to notice her. She is making her best efforts to grab your attention, but if you don’t notice her signs, then it’s probably a punch back to you.
She’s quite energetic:
Doesn’t she give a second thought to the things you have asked for? Be it skydiving or fast-run. She is up for everything. She feels so energetic around you and wants you to notice her raising energy levels with you.
Make an effort to talk to you:
If it is more than just a “hey” or “what’s up” every now and then, it’s clear a pure sign that she badly wants you to focus on her. Taking out time from work to talk to you and always trying to come up with a normal-engaging conversation, are sure chances that she wants you to notice her.
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The way she shakes her leg on the dance floor:
You see many women dancing at the bar, but if she’s dancing and making sexy moves, then she wants you to notice her. She may look at you while she’s dancing then ignore you for a couple of minutes, and then look at you again, waiting for you to connect through eye contact.
She finds a way to talk to you:
If there’s a will, there’s a way. She will do all the nitty-gritty things to talk to you. The possibility is no tricks were left in her book; she still looks for ways to make you notice her. All you have to notice your girl pleasant signs.
Whatever it is, if a girl is really into you and always looking for ways to start never-ending conversations, then cherish the lovely moments and be proud to have a girl who makes an effort to make you notice her.