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Social Media- Friend or Foe?

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I vaguely remember the days when there were no social media. It seems like it was back when dinosaurs roamed the earth, but truthfully, there was once a time when we weren’t all glued to our cell phones, tablets, iPhones, or computers looking at posts.

In some ways, social media is great. It is a means of reconnecting with people with whom you lost touch or that you would never have had the opportunity to meet otherwise. 

I have been able to speak with relatives. I didn’t even know I existed through Facebook. I’ve been able to see family pictures of people I knew 30+ years ago. No matter where you live or how many times you’ve moved, social media allows you to remain in the lives of people.

Social media also offers opportunities to network and market. LinkedIn and Twitter are great forums for connecting with people and expanding career horizons. Social media has been instrumental in growing my audience as a writer.

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However, with every click on the internet, there is a downside. Social media has great power and influence, and with that comes great danger. 

What was meant as a forum to reach out to the ones we love now has become a means of comparison. As I mentioned in “Is Grass Really Greener on the Other Side?” it is easy to fall into the trap of thinking that others have their lives together because of what we see on people’s social media accounts.

Every click of a button shows smiling families, exotic trips, and expensive merchandise. It is impossible to turn away from the happiness and joy that explodes from the profiles of each person. Social media has become an optical illusion of perfection that makes the rest of us feel empty and lacking.

People spend countless hours scrolling through social media to the point where it has become an obsession. Men, women, teenagers, even children have social media accounts. They spend their time looking at other people’s lives instead of living their own. As much as we try to love and guide our children, one look at social media makes us feel like we are lacking as parents.

We live in a world filled with fear, anxiety, and isolation due to the pandemic. Now, more than ever, it is easy to look at our lives and feel loneliness and despair. There has never been a more imperative time to find means of connection. Unfortunately, social media often makes the walls between us even higher instead of bringing us together.

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People who are already struggling with depression and financial concerns fall into the trap of social media. Many rely on it as an escape from reality, but once on it, we forget that it is an illusion. Social media often becomes a painful reminder of what we are trying to escape from in the first place. We fall down the rabbit hole of further pain and self-loathing instead of recognizing that Instagram and Facebook are mere glimpses of reality.

Another danger of social media is catfishing. It has become such a phenomenon that there is a movie and TV series about it. People start relationships on social media, only to realize that they are not talking to the person whose picture is on the profile. Sadly, a person can simply create a social media account, put up a fake picture, and claim to be anyone in the world. 

Stalking has taken on a new shape due to social media. The personal details we reveal on social media make us easy targets, allowing others to fixate on us and invade every aspect of our life. Social media has also become a vehicle for harassment and postings meant to destroy people’s characters and reputations. 

Even worse, social media has become another platform to engage in acts of bullying. There is nowhere to escape when people can attack you within the four walls of your room. Kids now feel a sense of power and protection from behind a computer screen. It has become far too easy to belittle, attack, tease, degrade, and destroy through the internet.

Related: Why It’s Necessary to Take A Social Media Detox

As parents, we do our best to protect our children from the outside world, but what do we do when the walls between the outside and inside start to blur? What happens when social media becomes the gateway to danger?

Just as internet bullying has become a harsh reality, a whole new world exists where predators are able to access our children while sitting in the comfort of their homes. What appears to be a sweet 13-year-old girl talking to your daughter may be a 45-year-old man. There is literally nowhere that is safe anymore. My job as a parent is to protect and guide my child, but social media makes it harder than ever to do so.

As much as I appreciate the benefits of social media, I do not feel that the benefits outweigh the tremendous risks that it poses to our mental health and safety. Until there is a solution on how to prevent the great dangers that come from simply putting a profile on social media, I think we are all the better off using the telephone. 

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Randi Latzmanhttps://survivingmomblog.com/
I’m Randi, a native New Yorker, Stay-at-Home-Mom, homeschool teacher, and the creator of Surviving Mom Blog. I currently live in Atlanta with my husband, rambunctious 8-year-old daughter, 2 cats, and a very hyper dog. Writing has always been my outlet, and I have been published on numerous websites. My blog ranked #26 in the top 100 Stay-at-Home-Mom Blogs by Feedspot, and I had the honor of having my blog mentioned in PEOPLE.com.
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