9 Things To Know Before Having Sex For The First Time

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Undoubtedly sex is impressive and pleasurable. For some, sex works as a stress-buster, cure of depression and the dose of toxic hazards. It is the reason we all here today!

Although not every session of sex is mind-blowing. Imagine your first encounter with sexual pleasure. It must have at least one embarrassing moment or a strange story which you want to share. Further, when you remember that awkward moment of your first encounter with sex, you will surely be burst out in laughter.

Well, sex always remains a mystery until the much-awaited moment arrives. And it’s far different from watching in movies and building anticipations in our mind – those portrayals rarely get it right — especially for the first time.

A guide to first-time sex

First, sex will not change you. It might hurt, might not – varies person to person. And most probably, your first encounter with sex won’t be mind-blowing, trust me. There can be different scenarios, and everyone gets to experience different situations when they jumped on the bed very first time. Whatever it takes, the first encounter with sex always is special and memorable. So, here Morning Lazziness has shared the few things which a person must know while having sex first time.

things to know before having sex first time

Keep low expectations:

Let’s be honest; your first confront with sexual pleasure won’t be amazing. So, stop expecting so much like this is my first time, so it should be magical or something out from the fairytales. Learning to have good sex skill is art. Start with slow and gradually with time it develops. Naturally, your first-time experience might be a bummer if you have set your expectation level too high.

first time sex experience

Do only when you want to:

Never thought of getting intimating under the peer-pressure or just out of curiosity. Don’t be greedy for sensuality. And, if the thought like this (M the only virgin left in my friends’ group and I have to prove something) comes to your mind, you must try to avoid all these nuisances. You can only make the most of sex when you both are willing and really want to do. No one can force anyone to have sex, remember. Take your time, prepare yourself, calm mind and when the right time comes your first time is fun and enjoyable.

Also Read: 10 Comfortable Sex Positions To Try If You’re Bored with the Classic Ones

Done fake it:

The most important thing for the first timers is don’t pretend to be satisfied just to please your partner. Such a step can breed bitterness and even spoil the relationship. Since it’s your first time, you are still exploring things and faking an orgasm is a big no-no!

never do fake orgasms

Indulge in great foreplay:

Foreplay is super important. Spend as much time as you can in fantastic foreplay. Because it’s the root of happy sex that helps you and your partner correctly turned on before penetrative sex. Kiss, lick and stimulate your partner as much as possible, and once you feel it, that means you are ready for it. You both should be amply aroused. Otherwise, love would be painful and disastrous.

Use a good lube:

A great lube can do wondrous. Hence, invest in good quality lube, and don’t let the safety kill your romance. You can go with any lube be it a water-based lubricant or silicone lubricant, keep yourself away from unwanted pregnancy and sexually transmitted diseases. Being a first timer, always keep a lubricant handy.

good lube to make sex last longer

Orgasms should not be a goal:

Oh, common, you are getting intimating the first time, how could you expect a mind-blowing orgasm? In fact, rather than focussing on big-O, enjoy the sexual experience. Getting orgasms should not be your goal if it happens then it’s good otherwise just go with the flow.

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It might not happen again:

What if you won’t end up with penetrative sex, that’s fine. Though it’s your first time, enjoy it rather than bogged down.

do intense foreplay to make sex to last longer

You might not bleed:

Bleeding and sex, these two things are not at all related to each other. So, if you won’t drain at your first time, it is entirely normal. Your virginity has nothing to do with the few drops of the blood. Chances are your hymen got broke way earlier, and you don’t even realize it.

first time sex is not painful

Will it be painful?

Sometimes, first-time sex might be painful. You can consult a Gynaecologist if the sex pain lasts for longer.

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