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7 Different Types of Therapy And Which One Should You Be Interested In

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We have all heard of a type if not a number of therapies that are available; some are quite commonly known; others may appear a bit far fetched.

It can be a minefield knowing what we need and which therapy to explore to improve our health, well-being, and mindset.

More now than ever, people are turning to therapies as an enhancement of their being.

Here is a chance to overview 7 therapies that cover improving health, wellbeing, and mindset.

1. CBT – Cognitive Behavioural Therapy

Cognitive Behavioural Therapy is known as talking therapy. This therapy helps you manage your problems by changing the way you think and behave. It is regarded to help anxiety and depression, mental and physical health problems. The concept is that your thoughts, feelings, physical sensations, and actions are all interconnected, and negative thoughts and emotions, feelings can trap you in a vicious cycle.

2. Acupuncture

Acupuncture is seen as an alternative medicine (Traditional Chinese Medicine) in which needles as thin as a cat’s whisker are inserted into the body. Most commonly used to treat pain and used for overall wellness, including reducing stress. Acupuncture examines the flow of energy around the body and uses specialised techniques to improve or correct problems that have caused disorders, pain, or illness.

3. Yoga

Yoga may not be regarded as therapy as such; however, the health benefits are high. There are various schools of yoga, including hot, Bikram, Hatha, and vinyasa, all, however, increases flexibility, muscle strength and tone, energy, vitality, and balanced metabolism. Its main components focus on posture and breathing to boost physical and mental wellbeing.

4. NLP – Neuro-Linguistic Programming

Neuro-Linguistic Programming is understanding how people organise their thinking, feeling, language, and behaviour to produce results.
Neuro – relates to how you have formed your mental map of the world – how you see it.
Linguistic – is the personal meaning linked to the information you have received from the outside world; this is in the form of feelings, tastes, and smells.
Programming – is the behaviour from the filtering process of how you see the world. It has been applied as a therapy for phobias, depression, and anxiety.

5. Reflexology

Reflexology is applying different pressure to the hands, feet, and ears on the theory that certain points are connected to specific organs and body systems. The idea that applying pressure to these points can reduce pain, anxiety, promote circulation, relaxation, and healing of the body.

6. Mindset Coaching

Mindset Coaching is an inside out approach, the rewiring of the mindset from negative disempowering thoughts to positive, achievable actions. The coach avoids giving advice or solving problems as the client has the solutions in the subconscious; it is the process of question and dissolving mental blocks, which then enables the person to get clear on what they want, gain a new perspective, and the ability to reframe their thoughts.

7. Meditation

Meditation is not about emptying the mind, but bringing an awareness and getting a healthy sense of perspective, observing your thoughts and feelings with detachment. It increases calmness and relaxation, improves psychological balance, and coping with illness, and enhances overall health and well-being. It is making the connection between the mind, body, brain, and behaviour.

What should you be interested in depends on what you want to get out of it and your end goal, be it health or a general improvement of well-being, or maybe you want to achieve a deeper understanding of yourself?

Whatever your desire is, there is certainly a whole chocolate box of therapies to choose from; however, do your research, ask questions, and have fun exploring what is on offer.

Tips For Weight Loss, How You Can Burn Calories

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Weight loss is a topic many people struggle with. Whilst it may be easy to diet for a week or two; you cannot keep this up forever. The idea behind losing weight is to have a solid plan and lifestyle change that you can stick with.

Weight Loss Ideas

The only way to lose weight is through a calorific deficit. In summary, the deficit is consuming fewer calories than you burn. When this happens, the body will begin to burn its fat as there is no more food left in your body to burn.

In general, to lose 1kg of weight, you must reduce the deficit by 1000 calories. So if you were to cut your meal sizes by 500 calories for 20 days, this would lead to approximately a 1kg weight loss. This may not sound like a lot, but remember, weight loss is a marathon and not a sprint. There is no point cutting weight, only to put it back on right away.

So in summary, there are 2 ways to lose weight:

  • Eat Less Calories Than Normal Burn More Calories Than Normal
  • or, Eating Less

Everyone could do themselves a favor and eat healthier. However, whilst this would improve your internal health. If your calorie intake remained the same, you would just become a healthier version of yourself- being the exact same weight. This is why the aforementioned calorific deficit is needed.

One of the more common ways in the modern age is to go on a Ketogenic diet plan. Whilst this is called a “diet,” you can actually stick to this for life if needed as your body does not have to rely on carbohydrates for energy. If you do not eat carbs, your body will take approximately 2 days to reach ketosis. After this time, your body will begin to burn fat and create ketones, rather than rely on carbohydrates for energy. As your fat is being burned instead of bread, pasta, or rice, you will begin to lose weight.

Burning More

Burning more calories is done by exercising. Ideally, exercise should be a habit and something you enjoy. This way, you will continually do it and not think of it as just a way to lose weight.

One study found that in a single 1.5-hour session of Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu, a man was able to lose 872 calories. This is really quite a lot of burn, considering an average male needs 2500 calories per day. The recommended calorie intake for a woman is just 2000 calories. Although this makes sense since women generally have considerably less muscle mass.

Another study found that you can burn 50-150 calories (depending on your starting weight) from walking just 1 mile. Whilst this is quite considerably less than going to the gym and doing high-intensity exercise. It would still make a difference if you were to walk to work, for example. If we average the numbers to the reason you will burn 100 calories per mile, walking 1 mile to work for a month would burn 3000 calories. This is approximately a 0.4kg weight loss and would also improve your general health.

Final thoughts

Although many people still often link weight loss to working out, it should also be added that losing weight relies massively on losing calories through a healthy diet.

For instance, you can lose calories that can be achieved by running or swimming, which are great forms of cardio. However, making simple replacements in your diet, such as switching processed sugary snacks with natural sugar foods such as apples and bananas, will also lead to healthy, sustainable, and quick weight loss.

Remember, a large factor of weight loss depends on will power. It may be doable to lose weight for a couple of weeks based on the novelty of a new workout or diet.

However, it is several months in when things may become stale, and temptation kicks in. With this in mind, it’s important to stay focused on your task – whether that relies on cardio or diet to lose weight, you need some form of will power.

In conclusion, if you follow the above guidelines, then you should be able to lose weight in a happy and healthy way. Whilst it’s important to be able to successfully lose weight if desired, you should also be content whilst doing it and avoid being miserable for the sake of creating a calorie deficit.

Not only this, but you should also make sure the deficit is done correctly; for instance, if you literally ate one apple a day, then you would lose weight.

However, this is also incredibly unhealthy and unsustainable. Because of this, a combination of a good, enjoyable but healthy diet and an exciting exercise regime is recommended if you are serious about losing weight in an efficient way.

The Beauty of Life’s Twists and Turns

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Imagine you want to drive from A to B.

Which road do you take?

The highway or the country road?

Most of us take the highway. It’s quicker, more direct. Taking the highway is a very purpose-driven form of navigating. It’s not a lot of fun, but very efficient.

Now imagine you’re on the highway and there’s a traffic jam. You have to take the next exit and take the country road to continue your journey.

This may seem inconvenient at first: a few kilometers down the road, however, you discover a beautiful castle, a beautiful lake, or a lovely country inn. You may even stop your journey to rest a bit and enjoy the sight.

When you enter the highway again, you may think: “isn’t it wonderful that I was forced to take this detour? Otherwise, I might not have had this beautiful experience.” You enjoyed the ride.

Now, what does this have to do with dating?

Most single people approach the quest for a partner like they approach a journey. They have a very purpose-driven mindset, and they want to get from A to B as fast as possible. The journey from A to B isn’t a lot of fun (most single people tell me that they don’t really enjoy “the dating game”), but it should be efficient.

What most people forget is that life doesn’t work like that. I talk to a lot of couples, and I always ask them the same question: “How did you meet?”

The answer I get is very rarely: “I looked for him/her and found him/her.”

The answers I get are mostly along the lines of: “I went to this party that I didn’t want to go to, and there she was.” Or: “I wasn’t even looking, and we met by accident.” I hear a lot of stories of unplanned events, such as missed planes, changed seats, trial and error.

When we think of successful business people, we tend to think that their journey was a straight line from A to B. We tend to think that they have a business idea, they know exactly what to do, and set out to do it, and – boom – arrive at their success destination. What we don’t think about is the cluelessness, the trial, and error, the sleepless nights, the worry, the product launch which almost ruined the company (but delivered important learnings) – in short, the detours that the business owner had to navigate to get to where he/she is today.

Likewise, when we think of happy couples, we tend to think about them in a “highway” mindset. As if their relationship miraculously just happened. What we don’t think about are the detours two people had to take to get exactly to that place so that they could meet in the first place. We don’t think about the hardships a couple has endured, individually and together, about the failed relationships before this one (which offered important learnings).

In short: what they have been through to get to the point to meet the other person and what they have been through that forged the strong bond between them that we so admire.

I met my husband when I was living in Budapest. He lived in Vienna and Prague. Both our biographies are stories of journeys and detours. Of trials and errors. Of opportunities seized, of risks taken. Of past relationships, which caused each of us to re-think our patterns and focus on what’s really important in a partner. We met online (I approached him. I had become a pro at online dating. I had also become insightful about myself).

He had only joined the platform because a friend told him they should join together (the friend never joined). And he wasn’t even supposed to be there because he wanted to cancel the subscription but missed the date and had to subscribe for another term.

So, it was a series of coincidences, or perhaps missing the right turn at a roundabout and being forced to do another round, but it seemed that this was the master plan life had in mind for us. Had we each taken a different turn or had an A-to-B-as-quickly-as-possible-mindset, we would never have met.

A couple of weeks after we got together, I got the call to move to Luxembourg. What started as a mid-distance relationship turned into a long-distance relationship. It was tough for both of us. But we stuck with it, and after two years decided to get married.

So, what’s my message to you?

If you’re stuck in a rut in your love life, it may be because you’re taking the highway, keep driving the same route, but never arrive. And perhaps that’s a good thing because where you want to go may not be the place you should end up.

Consider taking the country road. Do something different. Meet new people. Start a new hobby. Do the opposite of what you have done before. Stop being single-minded about finding “the one,” and instead seize the opportunities life throws at you (the more you seize, the more will pop up). Go to that party you didn’t want to go to. Visit that lecture on a topic you know nothing about. Be curious and open-minded about people, men, AND women. That new acquaintance may have a brother or sister who may be the one for you. The date you didn’t want to go to turns out to become a good friend and introduces you to his/her colleague from work.

If you feel that you will never meet anybody, ever, take into consideration that this is the detour life wants you to take. If you’re single today, it’s not because you have failed in the past. It’s because the best is yet to come. And while you’re on the road, you may as well enjoy the ride.

What’s the Difference Between Building Muscle Strength and Endurance- According to Experts

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Strength is how much force you can put out or how much weight you can lift. 

Endurance is how long or for how many repetitions you can sustain that strength.

On what women should focus more – building muscles or yoga?

They’re equally important. In order for your body to be well supported, you need a strong system of skeletal muscle and connective tissues to hold everything in place. But there is a balance between strong skeletal muscle and flexibility that is important in maintaining a healthy range of motion. Most people will have a natural tendency towards either strength (muscle building) or yoga (mobility and flexibility). Also, keep in mind that yoga can be strength building and stabilizing to a certain extent.

Best exercises for building muscle strength?

Compound movements are the best bang for the time-investment return. These are multi-joint movements that work for several muscle groups at once. Exercises like squats, pullups, deadlifts, and push-ups are examples of compound movements,

Tips for beginners in muscle building?

Work on strengthening stability muscles first. This helps protect the body from injury when performing dynamic movements and other exercises. Then work on correcting muscle imbalances so you don’t exacerbate any issues by over strengthening muscles that are already overactive. Once these first two steps are achieved, you can move through endurance, then muscle building.

The body is really good at adapting, so it’s always good to keep the body guessing or to surprise the body with new exercises. This can help prevent a plateau in your training and results.

Make sure to strike a balance in your muscle-building training with proper stretching, foam rolling, and recovery.

Fuel your body properly, try to get all of your macros and micros from your food and invest only in the supplements that are really needed.

How does building muscle help lose weight?

It costs more for the body to maintain muscle, so building muscle increases the body’s metabolic rate. The more muscle you have the more calories you burn, even at rest.

And obviously, if you maintain a workout routine, you’ll be burning more calories than if you were sedentary.

The more work you put in, the better your results will be. Just don’t over train.

What mistakes or things one should remember When building muscles?

Resist the urge to go right into hypertrophy (muscle building) training. Make sure to work stability and correct imbalances first. 

Training with an improper diet won’t yield the best results.

Free weights, cables, and bands are great because they take the stability assistance out of the equation and also provide force in the negative of a movement (an example of a negative is the lowering motion in a push-up).

Building muscle takes a lot of time. Be patient and don’t try to take shortcuts.

How does increasing muscle mass increase metabolism  

Muscle mass requires more energy for the body to maintain, so increasing your muscle mass will increase your resting metabolic rate or the rate at which your body burns energy at rest.

How To Keep Yourself Fit During The Lockdown At Home

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People all over the world are currently at home, and the gym is looking more and more like an off-limit area. However, one thing we cannot give up on is exercising. 

We would like to share a few ways you can try to keep fit during these challenging times and maybe come out of the lockdown just as you went back in.

 1. Taking Regular Walks and Runs

It is a bit of a stretch, considering it is a method while under lockdown; however, staying inactive for long periods of time is ill-advised by a lot of professionals. Taking regularly scheduled walks or runs while also maintaining the health regulations as stipulated by your country’s leading health sector is a good way to stay fit. Ensure that you maintain distance from other people and don a mask at all times.

2. Having a Dynamic Cleaning Process

Funnily enough, make your bed and lie in it. This is a two-in-one fitness method that can be done weekly or every two weeks, depending on your cleaning schedule. The overall cleaning of a house or apartment is a job in itself. It takes time effort, and a lot of mobility is involved. It is in a weird literal sense, making your bed and exercising with it. Having an enlivened cleaning process every week allows you to have a clean space to stay happy, moisturized, and fully functional, but it also keeps a certain level of fitness in your lockdown routine.

3. Bringing Back the Lean Routine

The 90s hit fitness tv exercises are back and better than ever. Moreover, some of them are still as effective and fun as ever before. It’s like taking a wonderful trip down memory lane, and for those in the much younger generation, it may be considered a look into the past greatness. Using 80s or even 90s tv workouts such as Tae Bo by Billy Blanks, The Lean Routine, or Get Up and Dance by Paula Abdul is a great way to stay fit. It’s fun, private, and gets the job done in keeping fit during the lockdown.

4. Operation: Yoga

Yoga is the stress diminishing, spine straightening, and overall a mentally soothing activity. It is a versatile exercise that keeps you physically, mentally, and spiritually at peace, or rather, fit. Yoga is known to let people relax and give them a good night’s rest. Not only is physical fitness important but also mentally. Yoga fits this package deal in maintaining one’s mental health while under lockdown. Moreover, it helps diminish fatigue while working from home.

5. There’s an App for Everything

This is the 21st century, and, there’s an app that lets you milk cows and another that does absolutely nothing, so of course, there’s a lot of fitness apps out there. They help in tracking your fitness and exercising in the course of the day. Moreover, you can equip them with goals and have them remind you of whether or not you’ve met your daily quota. These fitness apps are great for people that need that extra push to get the pedal to the medal and stay fit.

6. Pedal to the Medal

Speaking of wheels, bike or scooter riding is a one size fits all type of activity. It’s never too late to ride a bike or a scooter, and this is one great way to keep the glutes firm and in shape. Of course, you have to wear a mask and maintain a good distance away from other people, but that shouldn’t stop you from re-living your childhood and staying fit, of course.

7. Bring the Gym to You

Having a fully equipped gym at the comfort of your home is a dream that most people do not realistically have. However, having pieces of the gym alongside your will power, it is achievable. Regardless of whether you live in a house or apartment, having weights is doable.

Moreover, you can have and use resistance bands for that extra muscle workout. This is a great choice, and they can be easily stored. Furthermore, a skipping rope should not be looked down on, Double Dutch is still a great sport, and sports keep you fit.

In conclusion, there are a good number of ways anybody can keep both physically and mentally fit at the comfort of their homes and at little expense. It is all up to a person and whether or not they want to come out of the lockdown healthy, moisturized, flourishing, happy, unbothered, and overall fit for days.

7 Tips To Gain Muscle Strength

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Muscle strength is essential for good health. And, striving to gain muscle strength becomes increasingly vital as your age and start to gradually lose muscle mass and gain fats.

A 2014 study conducted at the University of California reveals that Muscle mass correlates with lifespans. In the study, researchers followed 4000 healthy adults for over a decade. The findings were clear; those with the highest muscle mass enjoyed the longest lifespans and vice versa. This correlation remained even after the traditional disease markers had been accounted for. The study also revealed that muscle strength is a more reliable predictor of early death than obesity.

Besides, having strong muscle improves your cardiovascular health, cardiorespiratory fitness, insulin sensitivity, cholesterol levels and reduces the risk of cancer, diabetes, mild depression, and joint pain.

Here is what you need do to gain muscle strength and forestall the age-related decline:

1. Conduct Multi-Joint Exercises

The most effective way of building lean muscle mass is through performing multi-joint (compound) resistance training exercises like pull-ups, bench press, squats, and lunges.

You can build muscle through other types of exercises, but you should first create a strong foundation through multi-joint efforts. Besides, research shows that compound exercises spur the highest upsurge in testosterone levels.

2. Increase Weights Gradually

For your muscles to grow further, you need to challenge them. However, you should be prudent when increasing the weight you lift. If you increase weight too slowly, your gains will plateau. If you do it too fast, you’ll increase your likelihood of getting injuries. Therefore, you need to strike a balance. If your last reps feel like your first reps, it’s time to shift to a heavier weight.

3. Include Low-Weight High-Rep Exercises in Your Regimen

Lifting heavy weights and engaging in explosive exercises such as sprinting impact your first-twitch (type II) muscle fibers. Research, however, shows that slow-twitch (type I) fibers (the type that your body relies on during endurance activities like running a marathon) great growth potential.

Ensure that you on work building them. Once a week, target your slow-twitch fibers by doing high-rep, low weight work (for instance, you can do 4 sets of 20 reps for each exercise).

4. Get Adequate Sleep

You should aim for seven to eight hours of sleep each day. If you don’t get adequate sleep regularly, you’ll accumulate sleep debt. Research shows that sleep debt can lead to an increase in protein/muscle degradation and limit protein synthesis/muscle growth.

Additionally, if you don’t get adequate sleep, you won’t be able to fully utilize the human growth hormones which spike during sleep.

5. Set Aside Time for Recovery

Muscles strengthen in between exercises. You should, therefore prioritize recovery. Dedicate at least one day of the week to rest and recovery.

Besides, avoid overtraining. This doesn’t mean that you shouldn’t push your body to the limit. But, you should limit intense training to about three days spread throughout the week – don’t do it back-to-back. If you push your body to its limit daily, your muscles won’t get a chance to recover and grow.

You can get the most out of your recovery days by engaging in light cross-training (for instance, cycling or hiking) and activities like yoga or foam rolling.

6. Include Carbs in Your Pre-Workout and Post-Workout Meals

In 2001, a study conducted by the University of Texas researchers revealed that weightlifters who drank a blend of carbohydrates and amino acids pre-workout improved their protein synthesis compared to those who took a similar drink after working out.

According to Dr. Kevin Tipton, a nutrition and exercise researcher who was part of the study, “Because exercise boosts blood flow to tissues, taking a carbohydrate-protein drink before your workout will likely improve the amino acid uptake in your muscles.”

Conversely, research reveals that you’ll rebuild your muscles faster during your downtime if you eat carbohydrate-rich meals. Carbs-rich post-workout meals increase insulin levels, and as a result, slow the rate at which your body breaks down protein. So have a peanut-butter sandwich, a banana, or even a sports drink after your workout.

7. Eat More Proteins

Amino acids are the building blocks of the body. If you don’t include enough protein in your diet, you won’t have enough nutritional resources to repair and build your muscle tissues.

You don’t need to overdo it, but if you’re striving to get stronger and to build muscle, here is a rule of thumb:

  • Decide on the bodyweight you want to achieve. Then, for each pound of your target weight, eat 0.8 to 1 gram of protein. For instance, if your target weight is 160 pounds, the quantity of protein in your daily diet should range from 128 to 160 grams. Ideally, the protein should come from whole foods.

Studies reveal that including an adequate amount of proteins in your diet helps you to gain muscle strength as well as accelerates fat loss.

This works for both genders; women and men. Results of a clinical trial that included premenopausal women showed that those who combined a high-protein-diet with resistance training lost considerably more weight compared to those who only dieted or only exercised.

You can lose weight and build muscle with a wide range of diets, as long as they contain enough protein. Just talk to professionals and experiment to find what works for you.

In a Nutshell

Gaining muscle strength comes with immense health benefits. For you to gain or keep muscle strength, you should gradually increase the amount of weight you lift, focus on compound exercises, get adequate sleep, and include the right balance of carbohydrates and protein in your diet.

How to Build a Playlist for Success

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The 3 pm weekday slump is approaching, and it’s probably about now you’re wondering, is the third cup of coffee OK?

If you’ve experienced or if you’re attempting to work from home, chances are you know how distracting it can be. But how do we stop our minds from wandering to what we’re having for dinner or that new cashmere jumper you were browsing on the web?

Your playlist might hold the answer. There are multiple studies that show listening to music can boost productivity and improve focus. But exactly what songs and genre-types should we be listening to in order to reach our full potential?

The sweet sound of success

According to Spotify’s office and working-from-home playlists, pop music was the most popular genre for the average worker. The Weekend’s Blinding Lights was the most requested song, but how does this compare to Bill Gates or Facebook COO Sheryl Sandberg’s musical motivation?

A recent study of the BBC’s widely successful radio show Desert Island Discs revealed the world’s top business mogul and most successful politicians are most likely to listen to classical music with 22% and 26% of all songs requested, respectively, falling into this category. 

Dubbed the ‘Mozart effect,’ researchers have long suggested that listening to classical music can help you focus along with a range of other health-related benefits such as reducing stress and anxiety.

The most requested artists’ across both categories of people were Wolfgang Amadeus Mozart at 7 requests, Ludwig van Beethoven at 6 requests, and The Beatles, who were mentioned 5 times. 

This could be because classical music doesn’t contain lyrics, which could be less distracting than other types of music. It might be worth saving some of Mozart’s most beautifully composed pieces to your device for the next time you are seeking inspiration and motivation.

Let the good times rock n’ roll

It may come as a surprise, then, to find out the second most popular genre was rock music at 20% of songs requested by business moguls and 21% for politicians. In fact, some of Bill Gates’ favourite songs include Under Pressure by Queen and David Bowie and Two of Us by The Beatles.

Unlike classical music, which soothes, rock music is a mood upgrader helping you to channel your inner boss. 

The high-energy, high-intensity rock anthems can put you in a good state-of-mind to smash those daily tasks and hit your KIPs.

Music as Medicine

Numerous studies show that listening to music can increase productivity, but this new research by Savile Row Company suggests that some genres are more motivating than others. 

The most effective music for increasing productivity is classical, followed by rock music and pop but in saying that, it’s also important to build a playlist that is tailored to your taste. Because let’s face it – you’re not going to listen to a playlist you don’t enjoy.

My advice would be to build out an expansive playlist, hit shuffle, and see which songs resonate with your inner entrepreneur. 

3 Tips to Stay Calm When You Feel Angry

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When is the last time you felt angry? Do you remember the way your heartbeat sped up? Was there tension in your muscles and a feeling that you might explode?

Anger is a fundamental human emotion. It’s something we all have in common. But anger is just an emotion. It doesn’t define us or determine our actions. The bigger problems come from what we do with the anger.

Anger can help create an important change in our lives and even society. It can show us areas of relationships or our own mindset that need work. On the other hand, we’ve all seen the devastation when anger is expressed through violence or retaliation.

Now is a great time to decide what we want to do with our anger the next time it surfaces, whether it’s during a political discussion because we feel ignored, due to a thoughtless action of a family member, or any other reason. Having a plan in place will help us live how we really want to. If staying calm through that anger is part of our hope, here are some ways to do that.

Three Tips to Stay Calm When You Feel Angry

There are many ways to stay calm when you feel angry. Here are three powerful ones.

1. Take a Step Back

If a driver cuts us off, slow down. When a child’s or coworker’s behavior angers or frustrates, take a step away. Physically moving back from the angering situation gives us space. It’s an immediate signal to lower our confrontational feelings. The physical space also gives us a figurative space to think.

2. Take Three Slow, Deep Breaths

Our breathing is one of the simplest ways to regulate our bodies’ physical reactions. When we focus on our breath and lengthen each one, we send a powerful message to our brain to calm down. Everything will be okay. We don’t need to be in fight-or-flight right now. Our brain sends that message to our bodies, helping to slow our heart rate, relax our muscles, and bring the thinking brain (rather than just the reactive one) into play. The small action of slow, deep breaths in and out packs a powerful punch.

As we breathe slowly, we practice mindfulness. We can check-in with how we feel and what’s happening with our body. We can acknowledge the anger, accepting it as a human emotion, and then choose how we want to move forward.

3. Connect with Your Why and Reappraise

As humans, we have an incredible capacity to choose and act. Remember, anger does not have to define us or determine our actions. So while we’re calming the body, we consciously choose how we want to think and what we want to do next.

Connect with your why. What is your intention and motivation in your relationships? How do you want to treat people, and why? If we’re looking at studies about happiness and age-old wisdom, compassion is an important part of our motivation.

His Holiness, the 14th Dalai Lama, said, “If you want others to be happy, practice compassion. If you want to be happy, practice compassion.”

A helpful way to find compassion in moments of anger is to reappraise. This is looking at the situation again from a different perspective that helps us feel better about it.

For example, when a driver cuts us off, and we think, “What a jerk!” we might instead wonder if his wife is in labor. If a child yells and we’re angry at being disrespected, we could reappraise to think that this situation is not about me; rather, it’s my child trying to communicate a difficult feeling. When a coworker says something offensive, instead of thinking, “She is so rude!” we might think, “Maybe she’s having a hard day.”

Studies consistently show that reappraisal decreases negative emotions, increases positive emotions, and strengthens relationships. That’s a powerful way to stay calm when you feel angry.

Anger Prevention

Lastly, while it’s really helpful to know how to stay calm when you feel angry, it’s also helpful to learn how to prevent some of that anger, how to become more anger resilient. This is especially important if we feel angry more often than we’d like.

In general, we prevent anger when we do things that bring more peace and calm into our lives. For example, mindfulness meditation has been shown to make people more resilient to stressors. Positive self-talk, exercise, and general self-care help people feel calm. It’s also a good idea to set-up routines and systems that help us get the necessary tasks done with less stress. A focus on meaningful connections with others also brings a lot of peace.

As we do these things, we’ll find that anger response is becoming less and less frequent in life. And whenever it does show up, we’ll know how to handle it. We’ll know how to step back, breathe deep, and reappraise with compassion.

You’ll know how to stay calm, even when you feel angry. 

4 Ways to Keep Your Remote Team Members Engaged

For people accustomed to office work, it is often difficult to remain engaged when working from home, especially if they have families and little children. Not only is it difficult to adjust to the new circumstances all at once, but it is also difficult to balance work and life obligations.

Luckily, there are a number of methods to keep remote employees engaged, many of which have been used by freelancers for years. Let’s consider the most efficient of them.

1. Encourage Communication

Have you heard of “Sunday night blues”?

According to a number of studies, this state of mind – often associated with sadness, anxiety, and sometimes even guilt – is rather common among people around the globe. Noting that it happens only on Sundays, it is logical to conclude that it has something to do with the coming Monday – the first working day of the week.

It’s not difficult to imagine how this situation plays out. People get increasingly frustrated, do jobs merely for the sake of salary, and soon lose interest in anything deeper.

The important thing to remember here is – you’re not alone. All of your remote team members feel the same way you do, more or less, so it is crucial to keep communication alive.

The majority of virtual teams maintain regular communication via various apps mainly consisting of email communication, instant messaging, video calls, and online conferencing. However, these are usually employed to encourage teamwork and productivity, rather than overall engagement and well-being.

Our advice is – host casual online virtual meetings. There are ideas and ideas to choose from – from a Halloween party to Saturday night drinking parties to online fitness classes. Ask your employees for feedback; you may be surprised at their preferences!

Another additional benefit with this form of communication is that location doesn’t matter. Even remote teams scattered across different countries can meet and hang out online, hosting all kinds of events with even better results than their traditional counterparts. In fact, online parties are known to be rather popular and attract more people than traditional ones, because even introverts will be willing to participate from their cozy homes, knowing that they can leave the party when it gets too demanding for them.

In a sense, online parties are more “politically correct” because everyone is more relaxed and doesn’t feel anxious because they don’t like crowds.

Finally, remote work is great for people who want to invest in their knowledge. Employees used to the online environment will also easily switch to online learning platforms. Given that the choice of courses is impressive indeed (and many of them are free, to boot), we’d recommend that people pick those they think will help them in their job.

2. Encourage Empathy and Wellness

On top of the above-mentioned, you should also make an effort to encourage empathy and wellness. Needless to say, people’s health should always come first. 

Any form of exercise will do; again, brief your employees to get some ideas. From yoga classes to carting to gym workout, exercising, and hanging out, these activities boost people’s creativity and keep them working productively in the long run.

3. Listen to Employee Feedback

This is common knowledge, but surprisingly, not many managers actually adhere to the tip. Everyone knows that if employees aren’t satisfied, they will both slack off and leave the company when a better opportunity arises.

Not good!

Successful businesses grow by investing in their workforce, encouraging creativity, productivity, engagement, and communication, and implementing employee feedback.

Don’t we all know how the startup culture works? People attending workshops and offering a plethora of ideas feel invigorated and inspired to participate in all kinds of projects and are willing to share in the company’s success and failures.

Finally, keep a tab on people’s important dates. Is it someone’s birthday tomorrow? Send them a virtual gift! Has someone overdone themselves on a project? Prize them! Always make some time for whoever needs to talk with you; in this way, people will feel reassured that whatever may go wrong, there’s a way to solve it… and, most importantly, that they will be understood rather than judged.

4. Get Personal!

We mean it – literally. Managers should be professional, no doubt about it, but you should always keep in mind that your employees are people, not robots. People, no matter how professional or removed they may seem, still have their feelings and their worries.

Make an effort to understand them and connect with them on a more personal level. Recognize their strengths and weaknesses and delegate tasks accordingly. Make a note of the tasks they like. Create tasks that are suited for them. Praise them for their effort.

Engagement is so much more than just checking up on employees’ progress. It’s an effort to create an environment people will enjoy. In the long run, only satisfied employees can bring success to a company. You also won’t have to worry about their loyalties. When people are satisfied with their work and see every company’s success as their own, they won’t be looking for other job prospects.

Lastly, employees need to be compensated for their efforts. Even the most creative of environments won’t manage to keep them satisfied if they feel their efforts aren’t being recognized and compensated accordingly. Don’t be stingy with bonuses! If you’re worried about company finances, remember that it is the employees who ensure them. Reward them properly and make it clear that their efforts are appreciated.

Conclusion

As you can see, there are numerous ways to keep your remote team engaged. From parties to workouts to video calls, there is always room for improvement. However, keep in mind that people are different; what one person may find encouraging may well prove disastrous for another. That’s why it is essential to listen to employee feedback and keep tabs on people’s likes and dislikes. 

By fostering a culture of understanding and encouragement, you will not only inspire your employees, but you’ll also build a perfect workplace for future colleagues to come. A welcoming and empathetic team is, after all, a welcome change in these hectic times.

The Long Term Effects of Stress on the Human Body

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Stress is described as your physical body’s physical response to a change in your environment. Stress can increase your heart rate, abdominal fat, impact sleep, cause depression and muscle tension while deteriorating your mental health when ignored.

However, stress isn’t always a bad thing; it can help to keep you accountable.  

Even though human beings are designed to deal with stress through our “Fight or Flight” reaction; the problems arise when stress becomes chronic.

When you’re stressed, your body releases the “stress hormones” adrenaline and cortisol. It affects your mental health and various body systems and organs.

 Here are some of the most common stressors:

  • Financial Issues
  • Health Issues
  • Job Uncertainty
  • Work, Workload
  • School
  • Spouse
  • Children

In this article, you will learn about the long-lasting effects of stress on your body – particularly from the health and wellness side, as well as how to manage stress to live healthier.

Cardiovascular Disease

When you’re constantly stressed, your cardiovascular system can be greatly impacted. Imagine your heart being Body Slammed by a wrestler- ideally The Rock. The longer you remain in a stressed state, the more damage is caused. This damage can happen without you even feeling or realizing it. This amount of stress contributes to the “silent killer” of America, high blood pressure, especially for young men. According to the CDC, 1 out of 4 people dies from heart disease annually.  

When you’re stressed, you will feel like the dude from Texas Chainsaw Massacre is chasing you all day. Over time, you will feel like you’re having a heart attack due to the tensing of muscles- leading to pressure in your chest. (And I’m talking from experience)

If this sounds all too familiar to you, it’s best to have a check-up with your doctor and have an assessment.  

Mental Health/Depression

According to studies, 17.3 million people suffer from depression due to stress. 

The uncertainty of your job(s), relationships, and well-being are high stressful factors and situations which affect your mental health. Stress affects the most important relationship you can have: the relationship with yourself.

It will make you feel hopeless and put your body in the “fight” mode all day, leaving you with an elevated heart rate and feeling anxious. 

This is compacted if you’re the type of person who keeps everything in and self-isolates, this stress will drive you into depression. 

Stress-induced depression has to lead to unhealthy and fatal coping mechanisms. (Ex: Substance abuse; drugs and alcohol) 

If you are suffering from any kind of depression or Mental health disorder, remember you’re not alone and to reach out to a licensed professional for help. 

You’re not crazy or weak for doing so. 

Other side effects of stress on the body 

  • Acne inflammation
  • Abdominal fat
  • Weight gain
  • Migraines
  • Irritable Bowel Syndrome
  • Low Sex Drive 

Now, let’s focus on how to manage stress, so you can live life- healthily and happily. 

Here are my quick tips to manage stress:

1Brain Dump: If you have a “busy” mind, and feel overwhelmed, write all your activities down on a sheet of paper. Then, start organizing and prioritizing. This will relax your brain and ease the worry of forgetting something. 

2. Create Boundaries: I have a feeling you’re one of those lovely people who take care of everyone and handle your needs last. Make the change to start to take care of yourself first. Create 45 minutes, once a day for YOU. Stop responding to emails and phone calls after a certain time, create personal boundaries to restore yourself. 

3Manageable to-do list: Pick 2-3 things you MUST complete. Set reminders on your calendar or phone but working “all day” is as stressful as watching the Jets play for the last 60 years.

4Phone Detox: Instagram and Facebook make it seem like everyone is having the time of their lives, with no problems. Social Media is the world of highlights with constant distractions. Put your phone down, and have a real conversation with someone who knows you.

5Watch Comedy: The more you laugh, the more “feel good” endorphins run through your body- and it’s easier to enjoy the present.  

6Workout: This allows you to sweat the stress out, get out of your head, and gives you a sense of accomplishment. A daily 30-minute walk is a great place to start.

One of the common adverse effects of stress is the increase in weight and fat, but it’s one of the least talked about in fitness communities. Your mindset and internal health should emphasize as much as the right workout plan for you for the best results.