It’s a Friday evening, and you are lying in bed with your SO, watching “The Office,” which, by the way, you have already seen at least five times before. You are wondering how and when Netflix and chill replaced date nights. There comes a time in every relationship when boredom hijacks the romance as it’s not practically possible to go on fancy dates daily.
If you are reading this, there are chances that you, too, are experiencing boredom in your relationship. If so, start talking to your partner. The key is to ask open-ended questions to learn more about their experience and feelings.
Below are a few questions to ask your partner when you are bored.
1. Do you have any secret hidden talents?
You might know a lot about your significant other, but you can’t possibly know everything. Ask your partner if they have any hidden talent that very few people know. You might get surprised by the answer, and there is a good chance that you both will get a good laugh out of it.
2. What’s the most embarrassing thing that ever happened to you?
Now here is a question that will definitely crack you both up. We all have embarrassing stories. Some are innocent, and all of them are funny. As an added benefit, you two will get an inside joke to laugh at afterward.
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3. What’s a weird question you’ve been wanting to ask me but could never ask?
You both might be super comfortable with each other this far in the relationship, but there must be some awkward or maybe slightly embarrassing questions that have always been on your partner’s mind, but they couldn’t muster the courage to ask. Providing them a safe space to talk will give them the boost they need to shoot the question. This will also give you both a chance to know each other even better.
4. Where do you like to be touched the most?
It’s very important to know each other’s likes and dislikes in bed to keep the spark alive. If for some reason, you couldn’t or haven’t openly talked about what you both enjoy the most while making love to each other, this is the right time to pop the question; ask them what their pleasure points are and tell them yours. It will create a different level of trust between you two and will also make the lovemaking more pleasurable for you both.
5. What’s my biggest pet peeve?
If you think your partner knows you the best, quiz them. It will be fun to know how much they actually know you and more so delightful to see their clueless face when they don’t know the answer.
6. What’s an ideal vacation for you?
This question will give you some very insightful clues if you are thinking about surprising your partner for a special occasion like their birthday or anniversary. Beware, don’t ask this question when this special occasion is near, or they might suspect something, ruining your surprise.
7. If you were invisible for two hours, what are some things you would do?
Make them wear their thinking hat with this party question. Whatever the answer, it will be amusing to listen. Moreover, their thought process will give you deeper insights into their character and personality.
8. Who was the first person you had a crush on? How old were you?
Tease your partner with this question and enjoy their innocent and cute answer.
Be creative. Ask as many stupid and funny questions to your partner if you two are feeling bored. There is no right answer to these questions, but they sure will set the mood right.