We all want a loyal partner, with which we can spend a healthy life and cherish the bond of love. But these days, relationships have become entangled and are continually breaking or getting over.
Today, people are moving on quickly; they want fun in life. That’s why it’s hard to find a soul-mate who can hold hands and walk together for 15 years. If we recall our grandparent’s and parent’s time, the meaning of love and relationship differed from present times.
Those were the days people found true love at first sight, and today, after spending days (or months), people still act confused – is he/she the right person with whom I want to spend my life? In short, the entire scenario of being in a relationship has changed.
Have you ever wondered why people have stopped loving their partners? The questions are many, and the answers are unvoiced.
Here, we have covered all the answers to your unuttered questions
5C’s of A Relationship
What couples need to understand first is to maintain a perfect balance between their professional and personal life. Second, couples need to master a few specific keys that enable them not only to endure but to thrive in their relationships.
Underneath is a shortlist of key principles employed by many couples, which contributed to their successful relationship.
The essential C that tops the list is COMMUNICATION.
It has been said that good communication is key to a successful relationship. Excellent communication not only warms the relationship, resolves the issues, but with time makes the relationship stronger and filled with love.
Do you remember when the last time you guys had an intimate, deep, and a personal talk was? Maybe months back. Now, it’s time to improvise with healthy communication.
To make communication sound, use supportive and kind words; bring clarity into your translation. Our good intentions are sometimes lost in a translation; the other person perceives something entirely different, and that’s where conflicts and issues arise.
Fortunately, communicating will be able to avoid or solve half the issues in the relationship, and yes, there’s a science behind it. Whether it’s love, frustration, angst, it is genuinely significant how it is being communicated as well as how it is being perceived.
We all differ in how we communicate, and it’s about trusting and respecting our partner’s love language.
Moreover, if you’re already communicated pretty well, keep doing that.
Some tips to make your daily communication healthy.
- Never yell at your partner and if issues arise then try to resolve them whether it’s big or small.
- Keep your mind and heart open; never say bad words to your partner.
- Never involve the third person in your conflicts.
- If things are getting worse, consult a marriage counsellor.
Commitment is the foundation of a flourishing relationship. When two individuals tied the knot, they signed an agreement to stand together in each other thick and thin.
The commitments about fulfilling each other promises, attaining expectations, and it’s a form of true love that keeps growing. A determination is not a contract; it is what powers the deal.
A commitment is mere above the physical and emotional attraction.
These days, people lack commitment, trust, and respect; commitment is the thing that overcomes anger, frustration. It also drives people away from insecurities. If couples work together, they can be victorious over challenging things.
Give a thought, when was the last time you surprised your partner? Or left them a sweet, surprising message? – here birthdays, anniversaries, and Valentine’s Day – doesn’t count. Make your partner feel special every day.
Commitment is the cornerstone for all married couples.
Ask yourself, Can relationships survive without compromise? No, they can’t be.
The roots of most of the happy relationships, especially marriage, are built on the base of compromise only.
It is one of the main reasons that connects people and something that must be negotiated in all areas of life.
Moreover, relationships are all about giving and taking. Two individuals can’t share a healthy marriage life if one partner is dominating and keeps pushing the other partner down.
Compromise is all about knowing and accepting that it’s more important to be in the right relationship than being right. It’s also about keeping the ego aside and supporting better half dreams, passions, and building a beautiful relationship.
Caring is a wonderful and glazing component that holds power to brighten any relationship. Show a little care and love to your partner, and they will be all yours.
Caring is the outward representation of the inward feeling and emotions.
So, if your partner is at work, call them and dazzle their day by saying “I love you.” It encourages the spark in the relationship.
Caring is a needed component of all successful relationships.
Companionship is the backbone of a relationship. It strengthens the bond to build trust, true companionship defines all.
We all need a BFF in our life, with which we can share anything, whether it’s bad or good, and that best friend stays besides without judging.
It has often noticed that couples who have a great time together also delve into conflicts. But those couples who understand the deep meaning of love and complete each other’s sentences show care are the couples who have learned the real sense of companionship.
Now you know what’s the magical recipe behind happy and long-term relationships is companionship.
Communication, caring, commitment, companionship, and compromise are the five essential love-tools an individual must know to mend any relationship.
So, open up yourself for unconditional give and take of love.
Now, the main question, are you working on your 5C’s yet?