The feeling of being rejected by someone special is devastating. It hurts even more when the person you wish to spend life with just wants to be your “friend.”
And then, even maintaining the friendship becomes tough. But, remember, it’s not the end of the world. And sooner or later, that guy will regret his decision.
Perhaps, it is difficult for you to accept the fact that he is not into you, and this can only make you feel worse. So, how do you handle such situations? How to make a guy regret rejecting you? What can you do to make him see your worth? Do even guys regret friend-zoning? Is there a way to make him feel he has lost something meaningful?
Hell yeah! Everything under the sun has a solution.
The best way to handle this is by being prudent. Your handling of this situation may prompt him to notice the loss sooner, and he might come crawling to you. If you want him to regret his decision, a few things can work wonders for you.
Let him know that you are doing just fine.
Normally, you are not fine. It’s okay to feel sad when you do not get what you want. But, he does not need to know that. Just keep on going as though nothing happened. Talk to him whenever you guys meet. Don’t leave him with the impression that you are still interested in him.
Let him take the initiative to text or message first. Make sure he knows that the rejection didn’t matter to you and that you are doing perfectly fine. Strong women are appreciated by men, whereas a cry baby is unattractive to them. The sadness you feel will repel him.
Instead, shine bright and live life as you did before you fell in love with him. If possible, cling to happiness. Hang out with your friends and live the fullest and happiest. It will be evident on your face that you are charming and bright even if he rejects you.
Look your best: play your trump card.
Dress to impress. You might be thinking, what’s the point when he has already rejected you. However, things are about to get interesting. The best possible way to make him realize what he is missing – is by looking your best. Wear bright and contrast colors, get your hair changed and stylize the way you never had. Let him see your gorgeous and sexy class.
But don’t overdo it. You should look good without being extravagant. The best way to look perfect is by knowing the best colors according to your skin tone, light and natural makeup, and some sleek and minimalist accessories. Adding perfect clothing and footwear will complete your look beautifully. Make sure to cross him once this is all done. You don’t need to talk to him or go to him; just make sure that he has a glimpse of you.
Stop showing Interest: make him jealous
The more you are available to someone, the more likely they will take you for granted. Avoid him and give him some space. Do not initiate conversations, texts, or any other type of communication. This will make him miss your presence and attention. Resist the temptation to communicate with him. Although it will hurt at the moment, it will benefit you later. Hopefully, you can turn the tables by standing your ground and distancing yourself a bit. Try not to spend time with him. Meet up with him in a group setting or with friends. The moment he notices that you aren’t just there for him, he will want to talk for all. And that’s how distance can bring him close to you.
Take Advantage of Social Media
Social media has become an important part of everyone’s life. It’s an excellent place to meet new people, see what other people are up to, and learn about their lives.
Engage in activities that you enjoy. Take plenty of pictures with your friends and family while roaming around. This will make you happy and will also keep you distracted from his rejection.
You can post these relishing moments and share funny memes and stories. By doing this, you will show him that you are fine and that your life has not been put on hold just because of him. And, this will make him regret rejecting you.
Love yourself- pampering time.
Take a break from dating. It is not necessary to go and find someone else to love you. Love yourself instead. Make yourself feel special, pamper yourself and spoil yourself. Don’t forget about the friends and hobbies that you love but didn’t take time to do because your love life held all your attention.
Spend your time having fun, not sitting around feeling sad. Your social life can suffer if your life revolves around just that one person. You have the perfect opportunity to take advantage of social opportunities you may have overlooked. Get involved in associations or volunteer organizations, go to parties with your friends, and meet new people. This will allow you to focus and love yourself and realize that you don’t need him in your life. You’ll be well on your way to finding someone better.
Move on, darling!
Yes, you heard that right. Things will automatically change when you move forward with your life. There will come a time when you’ll forget about him and everything you’ve gone through because of him. Keeping hold of the past does no good. Getting over him is the right thing for you. There are plenty of new things out there for you. You may feel hurt now. However, this may be the right thing that happens to you. Maybe someone will love you more than him, who will be better than him.
When a person is away from you, only they get to know your importance. A guy can probably take you for granted because you have been friends for a long time, and he knows you are always there for him.
You only need to distance yourself to get him closer to you. As soon as he makes a move toward you, make sure you know what you want.
And, if they don’t come to you, accept the fact that it wasn’t meant to be because you can never force someone to love you. Keep in mind that someone better is always out there. You just have to be patient. The points above will assure you that you will definitely get a guy, if not him, someone else.
During the entire process, you will also gain more insight into yourself. If you appear your best and have confidence in yourself, you shine brightly; this is the secret to achieving great things in life.