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How To Find The Best Birthday Catering Company

You have a birthday coming up; surely, you would want to celebrate it pompously. You would also agree that the décor and the food mark a good celebration. While decoration can still be fine, but with food, you would not want anything but the best.

To save on all these hassles, you would need the assistance of the right birthday catering company. You can get the right variety of starters and the main course, along with lip-smacking dessert items when you go for branded catering companies. 

They will take care of your guests and serve them piping hot food that they will savour. A good birthday catering company will make or break your party, so you must choose the best birthday catering company. Here we have got some of the tips that are going to help you find the best birthday catering companies.

Tips to follow:

a) Search online

Without a doubt, you must begin your search online. Today, the internet is a powerful medium where you can find all the information. Just type the best birthday catering service provider, and you will have a long list displayed in front of you. The next move should be to shortlist a few names based on their reviews and ratings. 

b) Look for the experience

your search criteria must have experience as a mandatory field. An experienced catering company brings professionalism and versatility, something you would want for your birthday party. It is important to find out what type of cooks are available in the birthday catering companies. Generally, a branded company has the right pastry chef, main course cooks, and cooks who specialize in grilled, fried items and in making desserts. You can make your pick accordingly. 

c) Speak to them

Once you have a few names handy with you, the next move should be to call them up and enquire about their services. You should ask them about their area of expertise, their staff, what kind of birthday events they have handled before, whether they would be able to prepare food as per the theme of your party, and also whether they will be able to deliver the food on time.

d) Pricing

You cannot miss this. Ask the caterer about the pricing. Usually, they have fixed rates based on the number of guests. You can choose the number of guests attending the party and tell the party company to keep extra food if there are an additional number of guests. 

e) Are they flexible?

This is a key question that you should not be missing. Some of the caterers have a fixed menu, but if you wish to have something different in mind, you must speak to the caterer about the menu option and know whether they are flexible in changing the menu. 

f) Ask for the sample tasting of food

Food tasting is paramount. Most of the renowned birthday catering companies will offer this provision. Even if they don’t, you should not miss asking them about sample tasting. It will give you an insight into how good the caterer is and how well they can serve your food requirement. People have become very picky about their food, so when you finalize a birthday catering company, you must check if they follow a hygienic policy while cooking. 

g) Check their portfolio

Another way to figure out whether or not a catering company is good is to check their portfolio and find out what kind of parties they have catered to before. Based on it, you can shortlist the one. 

Conclusion

These are some of the key pointers that you should consider before finalizing a birthday catering company. Choosing the best one from the pool of so many service providers will become easier if you act in advance and follow basic instructions.

When Healthy Eating Isn’t Healthy: Not Every Food You Eat is Healthy

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It is no surprise that we are inundated with the “latest and greatest” miracle diets all around. Each one is making its own bold claims that if you subscribe to it, “you’ll lose all the stubborn fat you’ve struggled to get off” or “you’ll have that six-pack you’ve been looking for,” etc.

And while there may be truth to those claims, you are a unique individual with unique biology. And what works for one may not work for you.

One of the biggest things I see with patients when addressing dietary habits is this notion that if I subscribe to a particular diet- vegan, paleo, keto, Mediterranean, etc.; then I must be doing something right. However, that is an only partial truth. 

The truth of the matter is no diet is perfect. Food is very specific to each individual and their biological makeup. Some people do great with a more plant-based diet; others do not. Some people can get great results and feel amazing after fasting for more than 14 hours; others do not.

3 Healthy Foods That Aren’t Always Healthy

  1. Avocados – while high in good fats, avocados contain chemicals that mimic latex, also known as cross-reacting, and can trigger allergies. Bananas and kiwi are also on this cross-reactive list.
  2. Mangos – This delicious fruit weighs in at a whopping 45 grams of sugar, making it the highest sugar content of all fruits. For proper blood sugar control and If you are trying to lose weight, this is fruit should be avoided.
  3. Wheat – found in most breads, whether whole-grain or organic, it contains gluten, which is further broken down into gliadin and glutenin. Many people who test negative for a gluten allergy can still experience gut inflammation symptoms (bloating, constipation, cramping, brain fog, memory loss) after eating wheat because of a gliadin allergy. At this point, it is impossible to remove just the gliadin from the gluten molecule.

The important thing to do is to listen to your body. I often tell my patients, “The body whispers before it screams,” and what I mean by that is this: when you put something into your body, and you feel “off” like those unexplainable issues that are hard to pinpoint, that is the body whispering. When you feel bloated after eating or gassy, that is your body whispering.

When you struggle to find the right words when speaking, that is the body whispering. This presents itself in the most subtle of ways and should never be ignored. 

Do not wait until the body screams in the form of chronic pain and disease. Take action towards living a healthy life by tapping into your body’s whisper and finding the right foods for you.

Being Alone is not Being Lonely: How to Stay Productive While Having a “Me Time”

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Certain circumstances in life have taught us a lot of things to ponder. Although it causes us to experience difficult times, it makes us create better and stronger versions of ourselves.

We learned various lessons from what we encountered, and we realized several things we had never thought of before. One of these is that being alone does not always connote a negative meaning.

As a matter of fact, being alone does not mean you’re lonely. We should realize how a “Me-time” can provide several benefits.

  • We learn to ask for help, but we find the hero in ourselves when we acknowledge our personal strengths.
  • We acknowledge the fact that we need to be more patient, more compassionate, and stronger. 
  • And most of all, we learn that by being alone, we can achieve more.

Being Alone is not Being Lonely, Here’s Why

There’s a saying that goes, “No man is an island.” That is true in some ways, but

A contributor to Forbes.com, Amy Morin, wrote an article, “7 Science-Backed Reasons You Should Spend More Time Alone,” wherein she discussed several advantages of why you should spend some time alone. Listed below are the reasons, as stated in the article:

  • Spending ‘alone time’ increases empathy
  • Being alone can spark creativity
  • It increases productivity
  • It aids in knowing yourself better
  • It can be a time to make plans for your life
  • It can build mental strength
  • It can also help lessen problems in behaviour among kids

Another article stated the difference between being alone and lonely. A part of the article mentioned:

“It is important to remember that being alone and loneliness are two very different things. Loneliness involves being isolated despite wanting social connections, where being alone means taking time for yourself between regular social interactions.”

The article also enumerated some benefits of solitude. These include:

  • It can help build and maintain positive relationships
  • You feel good spending time alone
  • It is voluntary
  • It can aid in re-establishing social groups when desired

Being alone can be the perfect time to ponder on important things – what’s too much and what seems to be missing.

If you want to utilize your time being alone to make you productive and achieve more, you should also be willing to make an effort and enjoy doing some helpful tips.

How to Stay Productive While Having a “Me Time”

The following are some tips you can consider to make the most of your ‘Me-time’:

#1 Keep a journal

Spending time alone can be a great moment to welcome new ideas, insights, and perspectives. Write them down in a journal. Keeping them on ink will help you not to forget those bright ideas. Journaling is one of the most effective ways of writing down your dreams. Even the most successful people in the world can testify to that. Your journal is best written when alone when you can focus on what you want to accomplish.

#2 Visualization

Visualizing your dreams and seeing yourself succeed is an effective way to increase your confidence. It can motivate you more because your imagination is limitless. Visualization also gives you the opportunity to “picture” what you will become. It provides the power to become someone better while accomplishing amazing personal and career goals.

#3 Reminisce your dreams and aspirations

Being alone is also a perfect time to reminisce about your dreams and the lovely plans you’ve made before. Try to be nostalgic. We may have noticed that it is easier to dream when we are young. We tend to have wonderful dreams before that we feel we can easily achieve in no time. We are so inspired, so motivated because the dreams are very clear on our minds and hearts. We feel that we can overcome everything for the sake of our dreams.

However, due to some reasons, that motivation subsides. We lost that passion for dreaming, and we often forget how inspired we are before. It could be due to stress, a busy life, or even the changes in our preferences. We then create chaos instead of harmony in making plans for our lives. We often choose to listen to what other people say instead of focusing on what we believe we can do and achieve.

At the moment of being alone, we can then reminisce and remember what we’ve been dreaming about before. We can resume that passion and inspiration. Finally, we can be back on track and still achieve the biggest dreams we have.

#4 Evaluate your strengths and weaknesses

Having a “Me-time” can also be the moment to evaluate your strengths and weaknesses. Look into some patterns in our life- the failures, the successes, the trials, and the triumphs. Although it is not right to stay focused on the past, it can be helpful to recognize the wrong decisions that you made so as not to have them repeated. The moment you analyze your strengths and weaknesses, you will then have a better opportunity of creating better and smarter plans for the future. We may all be entitled to commit mistakes because we’re humans, but we can still become stronger and more motivated individuals.

#5 Reward yourself

It feels wonderful when you receive something out of your own merit. It feels good when you see yourself succeeding after you’ve given your full effort and time to your dreams. Reward yourself with anything your heart desires. Sharing is caring, but you can also reward yourself alone to make you better appreciate the results of your hard work.

#6 Have some ‘pampering time’

During your “Me-time,” you can have some activities that will help you bring back the glow and passion inside you. Go to a spa and have a pampering treat for yourself. Have a vacation in a place you’ve never been to. You’ll surprise yourself with what awaits you in that place. 

#7 Learn something new

Another achievement you can have is learning something new and applying it to enhance your career. You can try new things such as cooking, creating a cute craft, or learning a new skill. You can sign up for a new course (there are various courses available online, free, and premium). You will definitely thank yourself later when you discover how your new learnings will help you improve your career in the future.

There are times we need to isolate ourselves from the various hatred and negative factors out there. We need to be alone to discover a lot more. Because of being alone, sometimes, we can better focus on what we really need to pay attention to. We can then bring back our passion for delivering the good from being a dreamer to an achiever.

Remember that being alone doesn’t mean you’re lonely. This is actually a time that you can think more, do more, and achieve more.

What is Aromatherapy? And Yes, Essential Oils Are Effective

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What is Aromatherapy?

Aromatherapy is the use of essential oils that are made out of plants and produced by distillation. Use only essential oils that say “therapeutic-grade” on the bottle.

When should essential oils be used?

Essential oils have been successfully used for thousands of years for a variety of physical, emotional, mental, and spiritual problems. Essential oils are very effective to treat aches and pains, colds, depression, anxiety, insomnia, and deeper meditation, to name a few.

Why are they useful?

A scent of an essential oil reaches the brain within seconds and activates the hypothalamus, the hormonal control center. It then releases hormones essential for our wellbeing.

I recommend different essential oils for men and women.

Women: ylang-ylang (balances female energy), jasmine (increases libido), and clary sage (raises estrogen and progesterone).

Men: goldenrod (boosts testosterone), yarrow (hormone balancer), and myrtle (stimulates the prostate).

And is it just a fad, or does it have real medical benefits?

There are thousands of publications describing the medical benefits of essential oils. When selecting essential oils, always look for purity and strength that only therapeutic-grade essential oils provide. They should be distilled in stainless steel cooking chambers at low pressure and low temperature. Plants should be grown without toxic chemicals. All the compounds have to be present at the right percentage to be therapeutic. Most essential oils sold in stores are not therapeutic.

I’ve used essential oils for my clients for over 7 yearsIn fact, I’ve even written a best-selling book Gypsy Energy Secrets, that includes a chapter on essential oils. I belong to a group of people called highly sensitive. Every day was a challenge until I discovered therapeutic essential oils. I could not use essential oils sold in regular stores since they were loaded with chemicals and would trigger a headache right away.

The easiest way to use essential oils is to put a few drops on your hands, rub them together, and cup your nose. Breathe in, then open your hands to breathe out. Repeat several times. Read the labels to learn which oils must be diluted and which ones can be taken internally. You can also use a diffuser. Don’t add essential oils sold in regular stores to your water. It is not safe. For dietary essentials oils (labeled specifically for internal use), add just one drop per glass of water. Stir fast. Never add essential oils to water in plastic containers.

There are several essential oils I use daily: marjoram to relax my muscles and lavender to relax my mind for deep sleep. Peppermint for digestion. Rosemary for increased focus at work. I use the following blends of essential oils as needed.

To support my feminine energy, I use Clary Sage or Lady Sclareol during the first part of my cycle and Progessence Plus during the second half. (Masculine energy is supported by Mister and Spruce).

  • When I want to support my brain, I put several drops of Brain Power and rub them on my temples and the back of my neck.
  • When I want to support my heart, I put several drops of Aroma Life over the heart area.
  • When I want to support my muscles, I rub them with Elemi, Cool Azul, and Aroma Siez.
  • When I want to support my thyroid and adrenals, I put several drops of EndoFlex on my right hand and rub my neck; I add some more and rub across the middle of my back.
  • When I want to support my liver, I rotate JuveCleanse and JuvaFlex. I put several drops on my right hand and rub my stomach on the right side under the rib cage.
  • When I want to support my kidneys, I put several drops of Juniper on my right hand and rub my back on the left side, then put several drops on my left hand and rub my back on the right side.
  •  When I want deep, peaceful sleep, I put several drops of Peace & Calming II or Lavender or Marjoram on the soles of my feet, my temples, the back of my neck, and my wrists. If I want memorable lucid dreams, I use Dream Catcher in the same way.
  • To support my inner child and create an atmosphere of serenity, I use Gentle Baby. I put a drop on my pillow, on a cotton ball, on my face, and on my neck.
  • When work gets tough and overwhelming, I use Stress Away to calm down and Bergamot to regain my happiness.
  • When I want to stay healthy during the cold season, I rub ImmuPower on the soles of my feet.
  • To eliminate offensive smells and clean the air, I use Purification.
  • When I need an extra boost of energy, I use En-R-Gee.

Since I chose to live a long and healthy life, I rub Longevity just below my knees, on the outside of my legs. 

4 Ways to Build a Strong Foundation for Your Business

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A fundamental truth about any construction is that it’ll have a better chance at lasting if it’s built on bedrock rather than sand. The same idea applies to any business — it has to have a solid foundation in order to survive. To make sure this is the case with your business, you have four pillars to strengthen right at the very start of building your business.

1. The Product

The product is an important cornerstone you have to start with in your business foundation. Without it, there really is no business to talk about.

Figure out the ‘what,’ ‘who,’ and ‘how.’ What product can you offer, and how will it stand out? Who are the people you think will be willing to pay for it? How can you effectively sell it to them? Answering these questions can build a strong pillar out of your product. Although it might seem simple, the whole process of coming up with a good product will take time and effort before you can reach the point of confidence to launch it.

If you are starting from scratch, think of something simple that you can create either on your own or with a very small team. There are so many “handmade” business ideas you can start from home, such as t-shirt design, studio photography, or e-book writing.

2. The Paperwork

Once you have a product, the next pillar for a solid business foundation involves formalizing and legalizing your business. The actual paperwork you’ll be required to do will depend on the type of business you’ll be setting up.

Sole proprietorships, for instance, don’t have a separate legal entity of their own, so you won’t need to file any forms or documents to create the business itself — you’ll just need to apply for tax identification numbers and permits depending on what you’re selling. If you want to make your business more official, there are other business structures you can apply for.

Registering a limited liability company involves submitting documents like Articles of Organization and an Operating Agreement. Though there are extra steps to doing this, it can help ensure your business foundation in the long run. This is because it provides personal liability protection, the ability to avoid double taxation, and a more flexible management structure.

For partnerships, there are no documents to file to begin its legal existence. However, there are certain documents needed to finalize the formation process, such as a partnership agreement. And with corporations, you need to file formal paperwork, usually called “articles of incorporation,” and pay filing fees depending on the location where you incorporate.

3. The Payments

Once you have a business structure, you’ll need to make payments for startup costs, which require careful planning and meticulous accounting, especially in the early stages.

Equipment, incorporation fees, insurance, taxes, and payroll are just some of the overhead expenses you’ll need to pay for initially. However, startup costs still vary based on business type and industry — an expense for one company may not apply to another. Maximize whatever capital you initially have by setting the right payment priorities.

4. The People

When you start executing your idea, you’ll need people to help you build your business and get your product into the hands of paying customers. These people will be vital for the future success of your business.

For many new business owners, you’ll need to find the right talent your company needs at the moment. You don’t have to fill every seat in your company right away. Prioritize those you think will play the most important and urgent roles. Make sure their skill sets are complementary and not redundant.

To ensure you have a strong founding team that works harmoniously, you need to become an effective leader to keep them moving as the business grows. You will be the one to give them purpose and encouragement; listen to them and understand their concerns; welcomes necessary changes; supports their growth and development, and appreciates and recognizes their efforts that contribute to the success of your business.

Is Gluten-free Healthy? What You Need To Know Before Starting the Diet

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The gluten-free diet is increasingly popular across the world. Many believe it is a new healthy diet to achieve optimal health. Once, the gluten-free diet was only for those with certain health issues such as celiac disease or intolerance. 

People assume that the gluten-free diet promotes numerous health benefits from weight loss and increased energy to improve overall health. But not all of these medical health benefits are supported by scientific evidence. 

Today, we are here to share with you everything you need to know before starting the diet, from its verified health benefits, risks, and exactly what the diet entails.  

What is a gluten-free diet?

Gluten is found in baked goods containing wheat, rye, and barley. It is a protein found in specific founds containing these ingredients. It is recommended to check the labels of the products you are eating, as gluten can be hidden in a lot of foods that you least expect. Gluten-containing products include:

  • Baked goods: bread, cakes, biscuits, cookies, pastries
  • Pasta: all types of pasta
  • Alcoholic beverages: beers, ales, sherry, port, and hard liqueurs
  • Cereals: oats, granola, muesli, and cornflakes
  • Grains: couscous, bulgur wheat, and semolina
  • Sauces: meat and vegetable stocks, soy sauce, gravies, marinades, salad dressings, and condiments such as ketchup and mayonnaise 
  • Snacks: crackers, nuts, popcorn, crisps, and seeds

There is an abundance of gluten-free alternatives on the market today, from bread to snacks and sauces. Substituting baked goods and pasta with rice, vegetables, and fruits is always a great way to reach your daily carbohydrate intake. 

With a growing attraction to the gluten-free diet, you may be wondering what the advantages of the diet are:

The Benefits of a Gluten-Free Diet:

Gluten particularly causes trouble for those who are celiac patients, intolerance, or sensitivity. The heightened risk of trouble is for those with celiac disease. A pea-size amount of gluten can trigger an autoimmune response which causes harm to the lining of the small intestine. Reports show that in extreme cases, this can lead to seizures, infertility, and nerve damage. Thus, eliminating gluten from your diet if you are a celiac is a necessity to prevent any extreme health risks. 

Whereas, for those with an intolerance to protein, it is encouraged to exclude gluten as much as possible from your diet. This is as it can provoke stomach issues, from bloating to pains and toilet troubles. 

Currently, there are no proven studies to confirm that a gluten-free diet is beneficial for those without health conditions. But, reducing your gluten can have some health benefits for certain health symptoms, such as:

  • Less bloating
  • Improved digestive health 
  • Reduced stomach discomfort

To avoid health hazards, it is important to be aware of the risks a gluten-free diet can influence:

Risks and Hazards of Gluten-free Diets:

Gluten products can be very nutritious and high in essential nutrients such as vitamin B, folate, fiber, and calcium. So removing them from your diet if you do not need to can cause unnecessary deficiencies. This can eventually lead to digestion problems, skin disorders, and stunted growth. 

A lack of folate is a particular concern of the gluten-free diet. Scholars at the American College of Obstetricians and Gynaecologists state in an article that this B vitamin is very important for growth, especially for children. Thus, women, in particular, need to ensure they consume enough folate during pregnancy to prevent birth defects. 

The risk of developing health issues is heightened for those that do not need to remove gluten from their diet. It is not dangerous to reduce your gluten intake. But it is healthier not to eliminate the foods if you do not need to.

Other risks of gluten-free diets include:

Weight gain:

Many gluten-free items can contain more sugars and fat than gluten-containing products. It is advised to check labels before consuming. Some people find a lack of satisfaction in a gluten-free diet and then eat more high-fat meats, sugary candies, and other non-nutritious foods. 

Increased chance of developing type 2 diabetes:

Developing type 2 diabetes is more common in those who lack certain nutrients, such as folate and fibre. A clinical study found that those who consumed a gluten diet were at less risk of obtaining type 2 diabetes. 

With that in mind, here are our thoughts on the health benefits, risks, and science behind the gluten-free diet:

There is no evidence to verify that the gluten-free diet is healthier than other diets. Yet, the diet is beneficial and health enriching for those with gluten troubles, as it reduces or eliminates health hazards. 

Gluten-free substitutes can often contain more sugar, carbohydrates, and fat than gluten products. So, it is important to check labels and stick to daily dietary requirements to inhibit weight gain and health conditions. 

If you wish to start a gluten-free diet, it is best to seek advice from your doctor to see if you have any underlying health conditions. Never self-assess your health yourself. Not only can it cause deficiencies, but it can increase the risk of heart and weight problems. Your doctor will diagnose the issue and give you advice on your diet that will reduce health risks.

What Are the Side Effects of Too Much Caffeine

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Caffeine is great, or more accurately, things that contain caffeine are great. Coffee, tea, chocolate – they’re all a treat and a pleasure to enjoy. But what happens if you consume too much caffeine? What kind of effects will that have on your body?

First thing first, what is caffeine?

Caffeine is a nervous system stimulant from a class of compounds called methylxanthines. These compounds are naturally found in coffee beans, tea leaves, cocoa beans, kola nuts, and guarana beans. 

Caffeine evolved as a way for plants to stimulate pollinating insects to make it easier for them to remember where the plants were. And, as a coincidence of biology, it also stimulates the nervous system of mammals.

Caffeine affects your central nervous system, making you feel more alert and energetic. The body doesn’t store caffeine, but the effects can last 6 hours after consumption. 

We’ve all had that feeling where we can’t function in the morning until we’ve had our tea or coffee. The reason?

We are addicted to caffeine, and we need our fix just to reach a level people who have never consumed caffeine will reach without it. So, we end up consuming more and more caffeine to keep that alert “buzz” and energetic feeling we need to get through the day. 

But what happens if we have too much caffeine?

1. Anxiety

Caffeine blocks the receptors, which cause tiredness and release adrenaline. This gives us the perk we need to keep going or wake up, but too much can lead to jitteriness, stress, and anxiety. 

In fact, caffeine-induced anxiety disorder is recognized as a syndrome by the American Psychiatric Association. If you feel yourself becoming jittery or overly stressed, try cutting down your caffeine intake as it may be exacerbating, if not causing, your problems.

2. Insomnia 

Probably the most commonly thought of side effect of too much caffeine is insomnia. 

While most people will lose the effects of caffeine 6 hours after consumption, it can be in your body for up to 9 hours, depending on age and genetics. 

I had this issue where suddenly I couldn’t sleep: 

For years, when I worked in restaurants, I would have an espresso before working dinner service with no problem. Then, all of a sudden, I couldn’t sleep. Removing that espresso solved my problem, and now I can’t have any caffeine after midday. Even too much in the mornings seems to mess with my sleep – it’s very upsetting as I love coffee! 

If you’re having an unsettled sleep or struggling to get to sleep, too much caffeine could be the cause.

3. Digestive Issues

Many people like coffee for its ability to “keep you regular” or get the bowels moving early in the day. This is because caffeine causes the release of gastrin. Gastrin is a hormone in the stomach that speeds up activity in the colon. Even decaffeinated coffee has been shown to create this response (decaffeinated coffee isn’t caffeine-free, of course).

Caffeine does seem to speed up peristalsis, the process that moves food through your digestive tract, which assists with this laxative effect. 

So, too much caffeine can lead to loose stools or even diarrhea in some people.

4. Addiction

Every one of us that needs caffeine on a daily basis are essentially addicts. 

However, this is not really an issue for most, and we can easily cut out caffeine for a few days if we need to without too much of a negative impact. However, at high doses, it can lead to psychological or physical dependency.

In a study, 213 caffeine users completed questionnaires after going 16 hours without consuming it. Daily users had greater increases in headaches, fatigue, and other withdrawal symptoms than non-daily users.

Now, this is hardly conclusive, but a few friends of mine have quit caffeine after being 6 or 7 cups of coffee a day type folks. They have reported it’s the worst thing they ever did; one told me it was like quitting smoking – but a million times worse.

Not everyone who consumes lots of caffeine will become addicted, but if you find yourself unable to cope without coffee or tea, it might be time to try and dial it back a bit.

5. Rapid Heart Rate

The stimulant effect of caffeine can cause your heart to beat faster. And, in extremely high doses, it has been known to cause an altered heartbeat rhythm known as atrial fibrillation. This has mostly been reported in young people consuming extreme amounts of caffeine in the form of energy drinks.

This effect doesn’t occur in everyone, and the studies that have been done on caffeine and heart rate haven’t produced consistent results. So, while it’s something to be aware of, it’s not something you should overly worry about. Unless, of course, you have an underlying heart condition. 

6. Fatigue

This seems counterintuitive, but the stimulating nature of caffeine can lead to rebound fatigue once the effects have worn off. 

Those that consume caffeine in high doses report feeling far greater fatigue the next day vs. those who consume moderate or small amounts of caffeine. 

To avoid a caffeine drop off during the day, you could just consume at regular intervals all day, but this may end up causing issues sleeping. To avoid this issue, it’s best to consume only small or moderate amounts of caffeine.

7. Frequent Urination and Urgency

The stimulatory effects of caffeine also affect the bladder. So, increased urination is a common side effect of high caffeine intake. 

This can lead to incontinence issues in older people and even increase the risk of developing incontinence issues later in life if high doses of caffeine are consumed over a prolonged period. 

If you feel you need to pee more often and more urgently, it is worth cutting back on your caffeine intake to see if that will improve the symptoms. 

Most of these effects of too much caffeine are associated with extreme caffeine consumption. The exact amount of caffeine these effects appear at will vary depending on your age, weight, and genetics, so it’s a bit of a vague area. But if you’re not experiencing any of the symptoms, you probably don’t have anything to worry about. However, if you start to experience any of the symptoms mentioned above, you should try reducing your caffeine intake for a few weeks and see if this solves the problem for you. If you’re concerned about anything, always contact a trained medical professional.

How Your Body Transform Why You Start Practicing Mediation: Importance of Daily Meditation

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There are things we get done each day without even trying, and a lot of times, we hardly think about them. Of course, we call these things habits.

Each moment, without habits, we would have to decide what to do next, and then the next moment and so on. In that case, every morning would be exhausting just trying to get up and out of the house successfully. Without being aware of it, you are able to accomplish this because your basal ganglia is doing its thing.

It is an almond-shaped brain structure located at the base of your forebrain and the top of your midbrain; it is an ancient structure that is similar to what you find in a fish, reptile, or almost all mammals.

Studies show that when an experimental animal works its way through a maze, it has travelled through before, their basal ganglia work furiously, directing them to their food while the rest of their brain takes it easy.

The same is true for us, our basal ganglia store specific activities that make up our habits so we can reproduce them over and over again each day with a minimum of effort.

In fact, almost all of our habits are stored and directed by our basal ganglia, relieving the rest of our brains of having to do unnecessary work. This heavy lifting by the basal ganglia allows the rest of our brains to think about more important things. 

The Anatomy of Meditation

The most important thing to know is that our basal ganglia require a regular routine to keep it well activated. If you keep up a consistent schedule, the basal ganglia will store the relevant information, take the responsibility to oversee it and make sure the desired series of activities are implemented daily. Now here is the big rub, if you do not maintain a daily habit, the basal ganglia will become deactivated and will not respond vigorously enough to keep up your habit!

We all think that if we miss our scheduled time to do our meditative practice, we will just do it tomorrow or later in the day or at nighttime. If not, then, for sure tomorrow. This predictably irregular scheduling process forces us to rely on willpower. This is a big mistake because willpower is like a muscle that gets tired out easily. Some people have more willpower than others, but regardless of the circumstances, it still acts like a muscle.

So, if you rely on willpower to be the foundation for your practice as opposed to a habit, you are almost destined to be unsuccessful. There is a big difference between the staying power of the basal ganglia vs. willpower. The tiring muscle of willpower will fail you while the basal ganglia, which is like the Energizer Bunny, will be more than happy to keep your practice going for your whole life if you so desire.

The Commitment

That brings us to the question, “what does our meditative practice look like in the long term? What is our commitment? Are we conducting our practice to do this for a while and then tire of it and move on to something else?” To be honest, meditation is the most important regular practice you can choose to do on a daily basis if you want to have a full and happy life.

I am quite sure that if you thought about your meditative practice, you would say, “I want to do this for the long term.” Maybe if you meditated about it enough, you would realize that it is probably a good idea to make it a lifelong practice. Clearly, if meditation is like calisthenics for the mind, and physical exercise is surely a lifelong practice, then it makes sense that meditation should also be a lifelong commitment. 

Additional Factors

A few key additional factors that are important to understand is that your meditative practice is supported by the quality of your meditation plus the time you commit to it. Combined, they are equivalent to the dosage level of your meditative experience that contributes to how centered and spiritually connected you will become. That is why a near-daily practice is essential to achieving the quality of life you want to achieve.

A practice that is spotty with a meditation session today and then one a few days later is not going to cut it. Again, the amount of time you commit to your practice for each session is critical.

Research has shown that at least a twenty-minute practice is recommended if you want to have a consistent effect on the quality of your life over the long term. This effect is referred to as an altered trait as opposed to an altered state. An altered state is where the effects of a particular practice session may be great but quickly dissipates. If you are committed to creating an altered trait to become transformed, then a daily practice of at least a twenty-minute, quality meditative session is ideal.

Here is a nice quote from Chade-Meng Tan, author of Joy On Demand, on the power of joy and meditation to refresh your mind on how sweet a meditative practice can be:

The more you incline your mind toward joy in real life, the more joyful and productive your meditations will tend to be. The more you practice mindfulness, the more likely you will be able to down-regulate habituation on the strength of your mindfulness and enjoy the pleasures of the day anew.

This Is Your Mind On Autoplay! And this is what your Dreams have to say about it.

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These days, mornings tend to disappear in a rush of routine.

  • Alarm
  • Snooze 
  • Facebook 
  • Email
  • Rise
  • Bathe
  • Dress
  • Instagram 
  • Caffeine
  • Kids
  • Food
  • Facebook
  • School
  • Work

If you’re disciplined (or, more likely, don’t have children), you might find a workout or meditation somewhere on that list, but even those activities are sandwiched between obligations and responsibilities. Before you know it, you’re hauling your tired body into bed, scrolling yourself to sleep. 

Don’t worry–this isn’t a “phones are bad” article (though the research about social media use is alarming). Instead, it’s a plea to listen to a nearly forgotten technology for feedback, growth, and healing, and one you’re already familiar with. What’s more, all it takes to access this good stuff is a good night’s rest. Believe it or not, I’m talking about your dreams!

For millennia people have used their dreams for incredible insight and understanding. Mary Shelley’s Frankenstein, Dimitry Mendeleyev’s arrangement of the periodic table of elements, and Harriet Tubman’s navigation of the underground railroad are just a few examples of how dreams have played an important role in our history. In fact, indigenous peoples utilized dream messages as guidance for large, tribal decisions, similar to an “inner advisory board.” And yet today, people largely forget and ignore their nightly dreams. 

Considering how fast-moving our world has become, it’s not hard to see why. You might not realize that while you soak up those ZZZs, you receive dream messages from what is often referred to as your soul or inner self. They originate in a deeper, intuitive part of you (called subconscious mind) that often lies just out of your conscious reach. As such, your dreams give you symbolic feedback into your waking thoughts, attitudes, beliefs, and desires. In other words, your dreams show you the stories you’ve been telling yourself while you’re awake. 

These stories-identities often help define your life experience, with thoughts like “I’m a parent” or “I’m a teacher” or “I like fruits but not bananas.” But it’s easy to get lost in the stories you tell to yourself, and before you know it, you’ve become a character in your story rather than the author of it. Left to our own inner analysis, “I burned the pancakes” spirals into “I’m a bad cook,” and even then can become “I fail every time I try new things.” We really can be our own worst enemies!

One of the most freeing experiences a person can have is stepping out of a story that no longer describes who they are. Paying attention to your dreams gives you the insight and perspective to do just that!

The good news is that you’re always going to be the best interpreter of your own dreams, and you’ll often have a sense of a dream’s overall meaning if you chew on it. Until you build that rapport with your subconscious mind, here’s some insight into the most common dreams people experience. 

Dreams of teeth falling out

Regardless of your flossing habits, dreams of teeth aren’t actually about your dental hygiene. In the language of dreams, food represents knowledge or understanding. If you dream about your teeth falling out, it represents the challenges you’re having in learning something new. Often this dream will occur when you start something new (like a job, school, etc.), and fortunately, it’s both common and normal. Be patient with yourself, and remember that it’s okay if you don’t get everything overnight. As you get the hang of your new gig, your teeth will stay firmly rooted.

Dreams of being pregnant

Babies in a dream represent new ideas. Just as it takes living beings time to gestate, your desires and creations also need time and nurturing attention in order to manifest. If you dream about being pregnant, it’s probably because you’ve been working to create something new in yourself and your life. How far along the pregnancy is in the dream will reveal how close you are to “birthing” your new idea. This insight can allow you to discern if/when you need to take action toward your desires or if it’s time to be patient in positive expectations. (Note: there are rare instances when women dream of being pregnant because they intuitively know they have conceived. While this is certainly possible, it’s a rare experience.)

Dreams of falling

Sure, roller coasters are a fun sojourn through dips and twists, but waking up to that same, stomach-dropping feeling gets old. While flying in a dream represents freedom in your life experiences, falling usually represents a perspective that your life is out of control or without direction. Feeling like your life is in free-fall can happen for many reasons (2020 has offered a few…), and dreams of falling will usually follow. Pay attention to your feelings about it and from where you’re falling, as they’ll give you clues about how to find your center again.

Dreams of being chased

If you find yourself running from something or someone (often not being able to run fast enough or feeling like your feet are too heavy to move quickly), it usually means you’re running from something in your waking life that might be weighing you down. If things feel heavy or burdensome, it might be time to get clear on what your desires and passions are…and then start taking (baby) steps toward fulfilling them. Regardless, running is only going to exhaust you further. Turn around and face whatever you’re running from, both in the dream and in waking life. 

Dreams of death & dying

Few things can be terrifying than dying in a dream, only to wake up gasping for air in bed. If you’re tired of watching yourself or others bite the bullet every night, there’s good news: death in a dream represents transformation and change. If you dream of the end of the world (or a lot of death), it means you’re undergoing a lot of changes in your life, and it probably feels overwhelming. Pay attention to your feelings about it and whether it’s happening TO you or it’s happening by choice, as these will offer insight into the way you handle change.

Nightmares & horror dreams

If dreams are causing you to wake abruptly in fear or anxiety, it could mean that you’ve been ignoring something inside you. Sometimes nightmares occur because of unresolved trauma, while others happen because you’re ignoring an inner sense of truth — what you could think of as your conscience. If they go unheeded, your dreams will become louder and more memorable in an attempt to make you pause and reflect. When you don’t, those dreams become nightmares.

While there are thousands of ways to interpret thousands of dreams, it’s important to remember that merely giving attention to your dream can be the first step in a profound journey of self-discovery. You are more than your story, morning glory. Let your dreams help you remember.

How to Leave Social Anxiety Off The Guest List At Your Next Event

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Most people with social anxiety are heavily concerned that they are being watched and judged. People with social anxiety are usually afraid to attend events alone because they feel people will criticize them. For example, walking into a ballroom, yes, people may look at you, but what people with social anxiety think is that they are being judged in a horrible way. This, of course, is not true. Most people are thinking about themselves. They may look at you but they aren’t thinking about you – you’re just another person who walked in.

In this kind of setting, I would recommend that the person take a moment to look around for a few seconds and just breathe. If there is a food table, go there first. Check it out and see if you can get in the line either before or after a kind-looking woman or man. Then, while in line, ask the woman or man if this is her first time coming here. You’ll find that she may be alone too. You both may agree to sit with each other or if she has friends she may invite you to join them.

Leave social anxiety at the door at a party

If you have social anxiety and you notice it begins to flare, make an excuse and go to the restroom. Take some deep breaths and remind yourself that you are doing just fine. The point of this is to remind yourself that even though you think people are judging you, they most likely are not thinking about you. So when you have no evidence for or against your fear you might as well remind yourself of that and let it go.

When talking to someone at a conference and you begin to feel anxious, always ask the person open ended questions. Everybody enjoys talking about themselves, and it helps you carry part of the conversation. If that conversation comes to a silence, remember you’re not responsible any more than the other person is for keeping the conversation going. 

In this situation, I suggest you just say, it was very nice meeting you or talking with you, but say you don’t want to monopolize that person, so you’re going to mill around or go to the bathroom etc. And do not think this is rude; someone may do that to you. It doesn’t mean you’re boring, it just means they want to meet some other people and you should too. 

If you are standing outside a group of people you don’t know who are just talking, just stand there and appear politely interested. Eventually someone in the group will notice you and open the circle to you. You may just be listening to whoever is speaking, but eventually someone will ask who you are then just introduce yourself and stay as long as you want and then move on.

I like to remind patients to get out of their head and try to be interested in the person they are speaking to rather than only barely listening because you are trying to think of something to say. 

Most importantly, I teach my patients to be yourself. You don’t have to change who you are.